Sissy Tami

LOL Square Duck, I have not been on the boards for a long time. I came around looking to see if anyone else had posted anything related to this outting. I thought that since it was posted in a weekly magazine that in stores across the country someone might have seen it and posted something about it. I found nothing and thought that some here might get a laugh from these pics. It's been too long Square we need to go again. So much fun to be had!

Someone was out having fun on Halloween And Holly says "Here's the Baby"!! This photo showed up in a weekly magazine with the subtitle Holly introduces her baby other photos of event Bri did not recognize who was in the photo so I thought I would help a little.

It was awesome!!! I had so much fun even though I had to just dive into town have fun!! which I totaly did!! then catch some ZZZ's and make the long drive home.. thanks ABCPL It was sure fun to meet up and hang out.. the more the merry-ment Tigger alway says! I hope to get together again some time. I hope I have more time to hang out next time.. We did see a few other AB/DL out in the crowd on the wounderful night. If you were one just let us know. We made a video post at the Las Vegas Halloween parade site. You get a glimps of us at right about 2 min into the video. I am trying to creat a link here but I have never done it before so it make take me a few.

Hello, It has been a long long time since I posted anything here on these boards. I am considering going to Vegas on October 31 for a parade and a costume party at one of the casino night clubs. I have attended the Fetish and Fantasy Ball there in the past. I have even had some of you come along and join me. We had a great time and saw some great people including a lot of scantaly clad women. We got lots of attention and took lots of pictures which we shared with you here on the board. The Fetish and Fantasy Ball in on Saturday Oct 30th. I cannot make that event. But if you wanted to have a great weekend you could attend events on Friday Saturday and Sunday night. Three nights of fun and frivolity. WOW, I wish I could make the whole weekend but I can't. If you would like to come and join me just let me know. Thanks Sissy Tami

Sad News! I will not be able to attend the Pride events that I have annoucned here in this post. My income is not stable enough to make the commitments to go. I want to give you all as much warning as I could incase any of you were starting to make plans. I am very very sorry about this! Hope you are all well Best regards Tami

I wanted to give ths a bump and share a photo of our fun in Vegas. Please come and join us!

I am glad you ask! Pacifers Pasifers Pasifers! I think they are the most marketable product used and liked by AB's. I have not found one in years that I reallu like. They either make the nipple large and the sheild small or vice-versa. I want to feel like a baby when I put it in my mouth not an adult with a baby pasifer in my mouth. It should look like a authentic baby pasifer but be adult sized. Made with the same materials that the baby ones are made with. Some with rubber nipples and some with the clear silicone type would be great. I think the possibilites are endless with this product. Look at all the palces and ways that they are sold to adults. You can buy them in the costume or party store. they are used for decorations at baby showers so they are sold in the ballon section at party stores. So make some decent ones that are pink or blue for mass sell to places like this only better quality. The problem here is you have to keep cost down to compete with cheep ones made in china or tiwan. But I think one with large round sheild and pull ring but with a better nipple could be done and the quality would speak for itself. they are sold in Adult toy stores with little cocks or sets of boobies for nipples. The problem with these is that they come with really little shields or nipples that are too small. or not proportionate to oneanother. As an adult noveltiy there are huge possiblities that are untapped. Make on with a decent sized sheild that has slots in the side so a strap could be attached. then make the nipple shaped like a plug or pineis. But make them large enough to be practical. It should atleast come close to filling the mouth. Make them in more than one color Pink ofcourse but also blue and black would be good for the BDSM crowd. They are starting to come out with pasifer shaped butt plugs and that is great and I think will take off but the opposit would be true also make a pasifer that is shaped like a but plug. Again larger more adult sized sheid and large enough to fill the mouth of an adult. The Rave crowd is crying for decent pasifers all the time and if you made one that had a larger sheild and came in multiple colors like pink and purple or purple and green. But again larger in size with the sheild and nipple. Also joke shops have marketed these for years in small boxes that say "For the Boss". these have always been a little better quality than the ones made for the party stores. Better nipple that is the sheild and the pull ring have always been the same mold. Maybe a better quality plastic was used in the gag gift one than the party store one. Dont make the sheild out of plexi glass they should be molded plastic like the baby ones. they should withstand a little bit of shock from dropping it. Make some that are Gags for the BSDM crowd that are inflateable and strap on. Make some for us sissies that say things on them like sisy baby. If the nipples were ordered in large orders and used in various types of sheilds and marketed in various ways they could be produced in enough quantity to make a good quality one affordable. Make the sheilds in diffent shapes i.e. round, butterfly, oval ext. I hope this helps. I would by all sorts!!

Told my wife when we were first dating. it went very well. a bit later on I was recovering from some surgery and she kept mi in diapers and feed me baby food for a week. one of the best weeks of my life,LOL

I agree with what you say about prostitution as a whole being terible and not a victimless crime like so many say. I am not sure that is the case in places like nevada where it is leagle and heavely regulated. of course there are illegal prostitutes in nevada where the whole slave thing is a problem. More needs to be done to stop the child sex and slave trades!!

It is clearly both. To some there is no sexual aspect to this it's only stress relief or remembering the joy of youth. I think this is true for only a small portion of our community. For most I think there is both. The sexual aspect drives the behavior but it also relives stress and provides comfort and great memories. The evidence for this is clear just look at the way AB related sites and business market their product to us. Photos, stories, products advertisement, all very sexual. most sites are limited to adults because of content. The content in most of the stories has some sort of sexual undertones. It would be difficult to argue otherwise. Most groups like ours don't like to be called a fetish. But facts are facts and for the most part we are a fetish based group. Lucky for us the term fetish is gaining broader use and less stigmatism. There are all sorts of fetishes that are accepted by the general public. Cleaning, hording, foot, you get the idea. Then there are those who the whole experience is sexual and a fetish there is little value or appreciation for the emotional bond to anything AB beyond the sex. Most of these are only part of the community because they want to tap into our pocket books. Or whose own sexual needs can be taped by working with those in our community. I.e. Mommies, baby sitters, nannies, or daddies who like to have a submissive. Fortunately we all get together and make is work! That’s why we are a community! Yea My advice is to get over it when people label you. I have been working for years to try and shape and reshape the image of our community. I have done this as most of you know by getting out and saying that it is ok to have fun and be yourself. If you just want to come to the community and complain about the labels society gives us but then do nothing to inform the public or change that perception then "shut up already"! If you don't like it do something. Of course most of you won’t, you will not want to risk exposure of your true feelings by speaking out or being active. You will want to stay hold up in the comfort of your closets. Note (I think that is just fine). But that is further evidence that you yourself view it as a fetish because you don't want it out. I am not one who advertises my feeling everyday. I am not a Full time AB as Heidi Lynn was. Don't know anyone else that is. So yes I have a closet. But I can be an activist by writing anonymissly to sites or editors when I find labels that I don't like of disapprove of. As well as my involvement in the Pride and Fetish events. I know another lecture from Tami so I won’t rant further. I love you all I just wish some more of you would be a little more active in spreading the good word.

This is alarming and yes it can, will and has happened to Nurseries of AB/DL's. Mommy and daddy at DiapersRfun were shut down in much the same way. More thru complaints to theright people and court orders than thru actual police action. But the end result is the same they were shut down. the debate over what happens behind closed doors being personal will for a long time comming be clouded and confused when money changes hands. Is is prostitution for a mommy, daddy, nanny or babysitter to change a diaper? Apperantly if you have a medical need and a nurse or orderly helps that is ok even though they are being paid to do so. but if you hire a mommy to do it because you like to wear them it's a crime. Phone mommies will cover all sorts of sexual issues that we babies would want to talk about that envolve very sexual situations. Most of these would be fall under the laws of prostitution in most states, cities, countries and providences. Trouble is that most adult nuresries are very clear about not providing these types of actual cenrios when you visit. this was clearly the case with DiapersRfun but since they did offer to actualy change a dipaer they were shut down. True we do need to admit that having a mommy, daddy, nanny or babysitter change our dipaer does have a sexual componenet or aspect to it. I don't think that we will find a resoulution to this whole issue in the forceable future. So have them feed you, spank you with a paddle or hair brush and tease or taunt you, but keep the diaper changes, didlos and other sexual aspects out of it and you don't have an issue. Sissy Tami

I played footbaall and wrestled in high school. Never wore in a team sport cenerio. I do wear when out hunting and fishing. Waders are way less troublesome when wearing.LOL

I thought it was time t give this a bump up on the boards. We are thinking of doing a get together in SoCal before the Long Beach parade. which is on May 16th. so maybe on Satuday the 15th Here is a photo to remind you of the good times.

I am totaly up with the Heidi Lynn comment. Heidi Lynn was truly one of a kind. Open to everyone all the time. We need to remember that heidi was not always as open as she was near the last several years. It took her a long time to work things out to get where she was. So take heart and know that there is not really a right way to be! There are some wrong ways to be though but thats for another post. Some of us seem to be comfortable with being open to family and close and freinds. mostly those who have medical need. Some of us (me) are very open to our AB or fetish friends or perfect strangers. But are more gaurded with family and close freinds. Very few of are open with co-workers. It's pretty much the way it should be! I will continue to encourage pwople to open up in safe enviorments. ie: With AB/DL friends and like minded people. (like the pride parades or fetish events). I do this mostly because it has been fun and enlightening for me. Not to mention very liberating. I have meet great freinds and feel much better about myself and my AB/DL feelings. It's kind of like newly weeds who want to line up all thier freinds. You just want to share the Joy!

fourtunatly i have never come across pepole that forward or who expected me to role play with them and push sexual stituations on me or even uncomfortable inuendos. lucky i guess but that is not at all what our group is about. we just laugh and have fun talk about normal every day stuff and ofcourse about what kind of diapers we like and don't like. We even went to a car museum in vegas cause bri and square are into cars. honest we don't bite. lol Thanks Tami

hello, BriGuy, SquareDuck and I have spent the last couple of years trying to get the AB/DL community to come and meet up with us and have found little luck in getting you all to come out of your little shells. We would love to have you come around and have some fun with us. Nexy event is Long Beach Pride on Sunday May 23rd. We might get together the day before in a lower profile setting. But we are not holding our breath anymore. lol SO BUCK UP SOME COURAGE AND COME JOIN US. WE ARE ALSO GOING TO VEGAS ON APRIL 30TH FOR AN EVENT THERE! REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENS IN VEAGS STAYS IN VEGAS!

I am not sure I can do both Vegas and Phoenix? I definately want to do Long Beach. I have already worked it out to stay with auntie B in Pasadena. San Deigo is still out there aways so we will see. If I can't do both Vegas and Phoenix which would you prefer? I hope to do all but well see. The bonnet is a definate either way Bri

I will have to check into this more sounds like fun to me. I guess I better get working on my passport.

Parade season is once again approaching and I am anxious to make plans. As far as I know Parade season starts in Phoenix AZ on Saturday April 17th. Next up is Las Vegas on Friday April 30th. This parade is fun because it is the only night time parade. Starts at 8:00 PM. There is no information yet on an application deadline. Third is Long Beach on Sunday May 16th. Application deadline is April 30th. San Diego is in the middle of July (Probably Sunday the 18th)but date has not been announced yet. It is also a Sunday morning parade. These are the parades that we have attended traditionally because of there proximity to us out here in the western U.S. There are many other such parades around the country. If there is one near you that you would like to participate in please let us know. Bri Guy, Square Duck, Sassy Girl and I are hoping to get more participation and support from the AB/DL community this year than we did last. We have given you plenty of time to plan for these events if you would like to attend. So no excuses!! We always have a lot of fun, so come and join us and experience the acceptance and support of the community.

I am, I am so going to make the most exsplosive diaper to wear with my new sailor girl swimsuit. No one will miss that sissy is in a big squishy diaper. lol

i am flying into Cleavland again but i am driving to WV on monday evening. long drive and i will need to stop for some dinner. wouldn't mind a detor and some company. lol remind me where you are in relation to Coloumbus?

Hello, I will be traveling thru Ohio and West Virgina starting on Monday Jan 11th, thru the Following monday. Anyone out there from this area? do you ever get out and about? would you like to get together? I wont have any AB outfits with me so it would be incogneto. thanks, Sissy Tami

Before I lived in AZ I lived in a community where there were few if any AB/DL's. I tryied to join some Crossdressers/Traniy group in the local pride parade. You would not belive it but they did not want me along. They said that I might give the wrong impression or confuse their message. I was dumb founded! A group who has a special day to celibreate deversity did not think I would fit in. Maybe I was just not deverse enough for them. lol. Truth be known most of them unless they have a Diaper/nappy fetish or side know very little about us and our community. They are as ignorant as the general public about us. Strange that they are so willing to accept the common misconceptions of the general public about us when the sream and yell if anyone lables them with the same ignorant philosophies. Trust me though there are a great number of the crossdressing and transgendered community who share our diaper/nappy attraction. Just look at their literiture it is loaded with diaper/nappy sinerios. I hope that we can continue to educate them and others in the GLBT community about us and our deversity and lifestyles. Thanks Sissy Tami

Trust me the reason that I did not go to the beach with you all is because of the time restraints not the lack of attire. lol. I would have gone in one of my old dress's or in just my onesie. Would have had a ball. Now I can go in complete comfort though knowing that I can look the part. It's cute but not as flamboyant as my parade dress's. Hope you are well square! it's been a while since I posted here and my be a while yet again before I get the chance. I am moving tomorrow and it could be some time before I get on line again. Take care and Merry Christmas and happy New Year!

This is me in my best sissy dress. There is this chair in town that is part of a art exibit that has losts of statues and things over a several block area. The women in our town like to take pictures of their babies in this chair. Mommy was no diferent she wanted to take my picture in it as well. This is me clibing into the chair with my rumba panties showing