Sleepy

I could call myself a juggalo,I am more into a lot of the underground artists that sprung up around the genre.

People,lower the torches and pitchforks for a moment and let me point out a few things before this gets out of hand. -The babyfur community is not all whiney attention whores,so don'tget us dragged in and put to the stake for the actions of one member.Let me use an example, No one here would like it if I made a generalization with all AB/DL's with the diaper flashers and said that they are all sick freaks. -Tris,you obviously do not know what being a furry is about to say that furs should be kept away from theme parks etc... that goes back up to my aforementioned point. For those of you who are "investigating" here is some things to look at. I do not know if I am correct on some statments so correct me if I am wrong. 1.To be admitted to a mental hospital you have to have a medical professional,social worker or close relative recommend it. 2.The details of what are consumed by the victim are guarded by privacy laws,so basically even if he is your boyfriend you still can't find out because the state does not recognize you as immediate family or spouse.

*Gives puppy eyes to Tris* Not all of us are bad ! Let's wait for the almighty post of justification,or a miracle recovery. Should this be true then I apologize but if this is a lie,I will defend the good babyfurs who get caught in the stereotype who have to deal with it.

Sounds like possible internet suicide and furry drama,let's see where it goes from here.

If you restarted life without an interest in diapers then you would not have the urge to wear them,therfore you would not have the need or be able to derive pleasure from wearing them.The key part of this question that people miss is that they think in the mindset that they are in now not the one they could have been in.

This fetish is not too different from being an AB I would assume from the sound of it,aside from the diapers instead of roleplaying a baby he would roleplay one who is handicapped which in a sense is an infintile state. Wierd? Yes,but everyone does somthing wierd whether they admit it or not.

I said this in my Truth thread.

The only part about deception in my post was that I pointed out how it was unnecissary to tell your parents and how bad communicaton hurts a relationship in subtle ways,if one does not ask about your sex life then you do not tell,is this deception? The main focus of my post is to point out a lot of the generic issues that we face here,I believe that one should practice a little curtesy when engaging in our fun little lifestyle,the title "The Truth" is more or less to point out several of the things that are true in my opinion of which I know of at first hand. When I mentioned normal,normal was used in the context of everybody doing it,what society defines as normal is more or less somthing that is done by a mass majority of a population,points : -Not everyone is going to wear diapers and dress in baby clothes -You don't see too many people walking around baby gear in public. -The fear of the unknown. I even if it is a part of their job to change a diaper I don't feel that one should include bystanders in their fetish or lifestyle ,example,deception is having a nurse change your diaper if you are not incontinent,this does not make the nurse a prostitute because she is under the illusion that you are incontinent and that is part of their job. Parents,my mother is a kink,am I decieving her by not talking about the latest dildo or diaper,the subject does not come up so therefore it is not deception,although she already knows of my practices should the subject come up and I tell her otherwise,THAT is lying but somtimes are beneficial in some cases by those who have a strong influence over your life. there WILL be more when I am feeling more talkative,this subject is not intended to start an argument ust to outline generic issues that we face at times.

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Truth #1 Female ABDL's do not always seek other ABDL's for several reasons: -They may not want to be a mommy because they want to be the baby! -Diapers are not the center of a relationship they are a part of it. -You overindulge. Truth #2 Coming out. -There is no reason to tell your parents that you like to wear diapers or dress like a baby,your parents do not need to know because: A-They will have to deal with the anguish that they did somthing wrong somwhere along the lines. B-It IS or CAN be misunderstood as a sexual practice and bedroom business stays in the bedroom. C-They are one of the most influential people in your life. -Telling your partner:Telling your partner can make or break a relationship: A-Hiding this can be an unnecissary burden on you and your partner because stress radiates in many forms. B-Represent yourself with taste not as a sexual deviant. Truth #3 "Normal" This lifestyle is not normal because: -Not everyone does it. -It is not socially acceptable. Truth #4 Other people do not want to be a part of your games: -People don't want to clean up if you make a mess somewhere. -Nurses,doctors,and other professionals should not be subject to your desires unless it is part of the procedure or therapy. There will be more later.

Oh my sweet jesus I got a reply!,if you or anyone wants to hang out send me a message.

I am back but not for long,how many New Yorkers have we got here?

Sweet,I wanted to see the tv version,I think I still have the actual book sitting around somewhere.

As I mentioned earlier I wanted to know what would be a good approach to the situation by specifying that she is a transgender,however I am done dealing with it.I have been trying for two years to get things strait and I have put too much blood and sweat into it.She is ignorant and has a disregard for those around her and too many others have been hurt because of her actions. Somtimes people have to hit rock bottom before they realize that they where attacking the wrong people,the others have chosen to leave her and continue on with life and I have chosen to make the some decision along with them. I cannot stop my career and my life for somone else,I refuse to hurt my own family by dealing with her anymore. ~Sleepy~

I am trying to avoid getting to this point... I do understand the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation but there is a "T" in LGTB,right now the situation is at a silent standoff.My reason for starting the thread was to find the correct appprach to the situation but it seems that things are taking a turn for the worst.

The things that he is doing that bothers me are things like harassing and fighting with other men and women including groping,fighting,indecent exposure to name a few but mainly crossing the line when he harassed a 14 year old a week ago,this is why I say he is being a slob. I know the problem stems from his family not being accepting and understanding as they are strong fundies,the reason I asked for help with a transgender is because I want to take the right approach to the situation. As for persuing his goal he is taking the steps to have surgery. I am pretty well aware the situation has little to do with his orientation since he is bi,I am asexual as a result of repression of such so I know that the problem does not stem from that though experience.

A good friend of mine recently began his quest to explore his sexuality and persue his goal in being a transgender. I am one to embrace all aspects of sexuality and such and I do not belive in dumping out somone in the cold because they follow a particular lifestyle,with this being said,I also believe in a sort of "sacredness" to the subject and I beleive that one should not desecrate a lifestyle. The problem I have is that I think he is being a slob about his sexuality and he is beginning to irritate me doing things such as- - Being pushy on those who do not wish to partake such activites - Inciting arguments with those who are not accepting of the aforementioned - The excessive abuse of "services" offered by mistresses - Constant abuse of others who where there for him in the first place he seems to forget those who where there for him when no one else was there to support him and care about him. I can take comstructive critisism with a grain of salt and chock it up to life experience if I am wrong for thinking the way I do with him,so fire away and tell me what you think and what I should do. I am not a prude about what he does but if he thinks this is funny to hurt others with this I will kick him to the cold to make him learn to be nice.

My plush army of doom !

I think that going for the bambinos might be a little bit much for her to handle depending on the type of person she is,however you can have a bit of fun experimenting with a few different brands and types like cloth,molicare,abena,etc...

Congradulations on your apocolyptic number 666th post! I do got a question for some Dl's,do the mix of diapers and adult clothing seem appealing to you as an Ab is to child clothing ?

1. Earliest diaper memory My earlierst memory of wearing diapers out of necessity was either at the age of two when I was at home just lounging about,out of choice was when grandma used to let me wear out of choice. 2. The first time you realized you liked diapers Same as part 2 of question 1. 3. Unique or memorable diapers sightings None,other than the mental shock of seeing myself in a diaper and thinking to myself "what the hell am I doing ?!" 4. Times you have been caught or exposed I never really bothered with hiding,I wore around the house and dressed in footeds.I am not much of an exibitionist mainly no one really bothered since I was a strait A student etc...,my mom said once that people need an outlet for stress and such. 5.When you have told or confessed to someone else I have to turn this one around.I am one of those people blessed and cursed with the trust of peoplein my life I have had several confessions from others including two friends,the first one was in elemantary,my friend had told me he liked wearing diapers,and then several years when I moved to Florida I had a girlfriend who confessed to me that she also liked to wear diapers.And the last was about a year ago my I cought my little couzin and his friend drinking from bottles and I said "what the hell are you doing?!" and I started picking on them to test the waters and his little friend piped up and said "so what if I drink from bottles and wear diapers what you gonna do about it?" and then kept quiet as he was unaware of my home life,I wanted to steer clear of any possible ridicule. 6. The first time you wore Same as #1 and #2 7. The first time you bought The first time I bought my first disposables was when I was 11,I went to a nearby store after a week of terrified attempts I finally went blank in the brain and picked up a pack and paid for them with no interest by anyone nearby.As for cloth I always had cloth diapers and I wore on and off before I was 11 8. Discovering that there are others like you Same as #5 9. Being ridiculed I have never been ridiculed,those who know about me have been supportive and accepting,my mother does like to terrorize me from time to time with jokes as she is an AB herself.

What types of clothes do you prefer or have a favorite ? Sleepers,Onesies,Shortalls,Dresses,just diaper whatever you can think of. My personal favorite are footed sleepers they are like walking around in a blankie,my favorite one is a black fleece pair that I got as a gift once. zzz...zzz.... })

My improvising is more along the lines of restlessfox,I also made a cloth diaper from fleece blankie,it made for an interesting feel but I would not dare wet or messy it.

I grew up on a mix of disposables and cloth, the only detail I remember of the brand was that they where blue and had a bear on them when there where none left.I still have one of my old cloth diapers too.

Most of us during our earlier years had limited or no acess to diapers so we made use of what was around,what did you make use of that was laying about ?