I'm new here, but here is my 2 cents worth. The average John Q (or Jane Q) Public isn't running around the streets, shopping malls, or anywhere else, for that matter, looking at everyone's butt to see if they are wearing diapers. And, furthermore, even if they notice, they are more likely to assume the wearer is incontinent than to think the wearer is a weirdo. I've had to wear 24/7 since I was injured in a bike accident, several years ago, so I speak from experience.