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Nat

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  1. On 2/2/2023 at 10:32 PM, Kif said:

    Just because a specific treatment option exists doesn't mean you *have* to go for it. The answer is generally "because that's what I prefer" or "none of your business". 

    For example, a colostomy bag. Personally, I find the idea of having an open hole on the side of my body absolutely viscerally terrifying and in all general circumstances would refuse that treatment option. 

    Same goes for surgery. Or meds (side effects). Etc. It's your body, you can't be forced to do one treatment/management strategy vs another (or any at all). Nor, for most circumstances, absolutely have to explain yourself or your choices.

    personally might consider an enema for rare circumstances, but again I'd rather not as it's quite physically uncomfortable for me and makes my voiding schedule less predictable after it wears off (as otherwise, like you said, 99% of the time it's after a meal...which allows you to plan quite a bit...otherwise when I've had them I couldn't tell when I'd need to void again).

    Either way...seems like you're overthinking it and/or are surrounded by toxic nosey people. If that's the case, I'm sorry you have to deal with that; it really shouldn't be this big of a deal, and you shouldn't need to worry so much about what people think of you.

    Folks deserve better, they deserve privacy and dignity.

    I imagine insurance companies force this stuff on bowel IC people by refusing to cover diapers for them but will cover for the other stuff. 

  2. No, or I wouldn't be allowed to make my own decisions. I wouldn't be allowed to wear diapers and have AB items and have the freedom to make adult content. if you mean boredline low IQ or IQ in the 60s, just no because I read that people with lower IQs are at higher risk of being taken advantage of and getting in trouble with the law. The judge will not care you are a kid mentally, he will, just see your low IQ makes you a danger to the public. After all, most inmates seem to have low IQs or mental illnesses so prisons have become like mental institutions or mental hospitals. 

  3. 55 has always been senior age for businesses. For federal it's 65 because that is the official retirement age and you are entitled to retirement benefits then and other senior things like Medicare and SSDI. 

     

  4. I assume this is for special needs students? The times I grew up in special ed, only very few students wore diapers. Those who are incontinent and mobile will change themselves, not want a teacher do it. In high school, there was only one girl in my high school who wore them and teachers changed her, even my aide changed her too but she was in a wheelchair. When I was in a self contained class, only the school nurse changed this girl in my class, the teachers never did it so that meant this girl would be in a soiled diaper until the school nurse came. 

  5. 35 minutes ago, ValentinesStuff said:

    You do realize that there adults on this forum that are unable to take care of all of their adult needs. Cannot drive, cannot work, possibly cannot even get out of bed by themselves

    I doubt they're trans age. It's a disability for a reason. Even I'm disabled, that doesn't make me a literal child and it's insulting for anyone to see me as such and try and pretend I'm not an adult. I've had an ex like this. 

  6. 1 hour ago, Snugglebear_69 said:

    Except for the fact that a ton of them do as is evidenced by the whole age dysphoria thread.

    They shouldn't be here then. You can't identify as a minor like how people can't identify as pets. So yes I do apply the same logic to people who think they are literal minors in an adult body. 

  7. If people want to identify as animals, does that mean we must treat them as such and take away their human rights? They are animals after all and animals don't live in houses and vote and eat human food and if they want to live in houses, they must be house pets and they must be bathed like an animal as well. They must go to an animal shelter too to be adopted out or put to sleep if no one wants them. Oh the horror. 

  8. On 10/12/2022 at 6:05 PM, Elfy said:

    I don't nkow if it needs to be said really but it's a completely fake story: https://www.reuters.com/article/factcheck-furries-school-idUSL1N2YN1O2

    https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/litter-boxes-bathrooms/

    https://littlebuddythecat.com/tag/fact-check/

    This "news story" keeps being brought up in different places to denigrate people who may not identify with the gender they were born with or to just attack the young/liberal/left... or maybe it's just incredibly lazy "journalism" with people regurgitation a story that never had any source. It's the next evolution of the transphobes one joke: "I identify as an attack helicopter" I suppose.

    I have no doubt there are teenagers out there who strongly associate with one animal or another (I mean, furries are a thing!) but there is no way that any institution is accomodating this! There is a big difference from the furry interest to "I am actually an animal".

    Ugh, so this was a transphobic story then. I feel the same way about those who try to identify as a child. 

    Well I guess they better allow other cats in the school then and take away her human rights, she's a cat and should be treated as such. 

  9. 5 hours ago, spark said:

    Are you talking about the article that Matt Walsh was referring to in his non-sensical rant?

    Yes, he made these false claims about her. Because people lie or twist things or because they can't even read, I have to look for the source myself and see it to form my own opinion. 

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  10. 20 minutes ago, babykeiff said:

    You, in your post of 06.08AM, 31st Sept 2022 quoted what I posted of 22nd Sept 2022 but deleted everything in my post in your quote except the phrase "everyone would be ABDL". This, I addressed in the post of 01.00 1st Oct 2022 identifing that statememt was taken out of contect. You are now stating that I do not understand what you are saying!, making the presumption that I do not understand the phase "more likely"

    It is more likely that you have got soething wrong, and will not admit it.

    It is more likely that you are misquoting me, and using what I state to suit your own agenda.

    It is more likely that I will block you from now on.

    There was no agenda and you're acting like I attacked you when I didn't. I only quoted the part I was responding too and you took it personal like I was out yo get you. People here can see your entire post to see what you written so there wouldn't be a point to pretend you didn't write anything else. People here have eyes and they can see all the posts in this thread. There was no point to repeating yourself. 

    Go ahead and block me. I don't like interacting with people anyway who think everything is an attack and someone having an agenda against them when all they were doing is making a comment. Bye. 

     

     

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  11. People that need to wear diapers may become one because it helps them cope with it. My friend is also ABDL. His disability makes him feel like a baby. But he doesn't like needing to wear them because of costs and he becomes housebound when he has a bladder day. He doesn't want to risk leaks or having to change in public. I honestly think if he quit drinking beer and pop, he wouldn't have bladder days. It would reduce it a lot. 

    I like to drink energy drinks and flood my diapers having a bladder day. But I avoid every drinks when I'm gone all day to avoid any messy accidents or a bladder day. Water doesn't affect my bladder much. 

    My dad is diabetic so he uses the bathroom a lot. His body just makes more urine than an average person. My son has SPD so he might be sensitive to his bladder so he uses the toilet more. He doesn't wear diapers and it's not something I would encourage him to do. I have even pulled over on the side of the road to let him go. 

    Back in high school I was peeing up to 8 times a day because teachers limited passes for each student per quarter. We only had 3 passes so I would pee between each class and during lunch and when I would first get to school to avoid feeling any urge to go because it's distracting to feel the urge to go. I think this is what fucked my bladder up making it more sensitive and I cut back on fluids in the day time too so I was always dehydrated and always constipated and I thought this was all normal. I started to use having to pee a lot as an excuse to put a diaper on when I drank too much water because I worked out. 

     

    Lot of people have a hard time wearing them due to the stigma but they may seek out ABDL to help them wear them and learn to like it. That is why it seems like half of ABDLs are incontinent. But most IC people are not into ABDL. 

    I do admit I like diapers so I wear them. But I am not into it the way diaper fetishists are. For me it's more of a lifestyle and convenience and comfort. 

    There seems to be a stigma about liking diapers so they come here even if they have a medical issue. I mean they do the work to keep you dry so why wouldn't you like them? It's like me saying I don't like pads or tampons but wear them anyway when in fact I don't like having my period. Imagine if someone said they didn't like underwear but wore them anyway. This is what I think about diapers. People with medical issues are too afraid to say they like them so they seek out ABDL communities instead because it's more accepted here. And I don't think it's uncommon for IC people to post in ABDL communities for this reason. I still think some of them have a hard time saying they like them because if they didn't like it, they would be living on toilet schedules or limiting fluids and what they drink. It's okay to like diapers. It's okay to wear them out of convince and enjoy it. But this stigma is still there so they won't admit to it. 

     

     

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  12. You obviously didn't understand, i said I think people with autism or other mental issues are more likely to become ABDL.

    Lot of people misunderstand what "more likely" means. It does not mean you will become one. 

     

     

    Also my son will go to the bathroom a lot if he has had anything to drink and he has been out of diapers for 9 years. He once went twice while we were at a mall and we weren't there long. I also have a friend who has an abnormal large bladder but he is still IC due to ceberal palsy. That means when his bladder empties, he will flood his diaper and needs heavy duty ones that will hold 30-40 second pees. 

  13. On 3/19/2022 at 12:08 PM, Fleetwoodmac32192 said:

    Yeah no matter how successful I feel, it's like I don't feel ready to leave pull ups and diapers behind. I know I can make it to the toilet but I still feel scared every time my bladder feels any pressure. The idea of letting go or having an accident is comforting to me but at the same time I don't want to smell like a used toilet every where I go. I love the northshore GoSupreme pull ups but it's too expensive for me to purchase and use regularly. My partner gently told me they don't want me to wear around them and I'm trying to respect that, but the urge doesn't go away. I did have an accident once in front of them but i felt sensory overload in that moment and accidents don't usually happen to me. My doctor believes it's because of my Autism processing my senses is impacting it. Beyond trying not to be dehydrated, I haven't received any other response from my doctor. I don't understand how anyone can hold it in for 2 hours at least and be considered healthy. My partner has diabetes and autism yet they have to go less often and seems like they can hold it better than me.

    Sounds like you do need diapers and your partner doesn't understand you don't need to be IC to wear them. I also can't go all day without using the toilet and it amazes me to see my daughter do it and my mom. Some people just have small bladders so they go more often. 

    On 9/21/2022 at 6:26 PM, babykeiff said:

    everyone would be ABDL.

    I think more people on the spectrum and those with mental issues are more likely to be ABDL. That is why the number of them are so high in the community. 

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