Wow some strong ideas flying around! I myself feel that the ability to cry in AB mode would be a very effective way of engaging with my AB side ( I may dress the part but feel silly acting like a baby without something to force me to) but here's the prob I know I'm emotional inside I feel hurt anger sorrow and regret all the time, but I never cry, even with the biggest fights insult or rejections it never happens, I'm about to turn 29 and the last time I cried I was 16 !and it was the day my gran died scince then not a tear has been shed! Other than when I actually do have something in my eye. When angry I wish I could let it all out but all I end up doing is pacing untill I calm down and sit quietly to myself, much as I'd like I don't think its possible to make me cry like that even with a heavy spanking.