Tom92

Hi! I am seeking for some advice from you guys. I have been dealing with bladder problems for quite some time now and last few months I did not have a dry day or night. I am wearing diapers, 24/7 as of now and I have various small leaks, dribbles, when I feel some pressure in my bladder I know that there are seconds before it will release. At the moment I change 5-6 diapers per day (I wear Tena Slip Super) and I rather change more diapers then stay in a wet one for a long time. I think I would be able to manage this with incontinence pads, you know these big ones. This way I could go back to wearing underwear at daytime and the changing is much easier. I feel bad for wearing diapers when I could manage it with pads, but I cannot get these pads to work comfortably. They move around, they sag real bad. I have tried wearing different stuff, fixations pants, various underwear. At some point I used these Tena Man pads, but they are extremely uncomfortable to me. I have also tried Tena Pants and Molicare Pants, also SERIOUSLY uncomfortable when wet. Am I wrong for wearing diapers when I could use pads? Maybe someone has any advice how to wear pads properly to get comfortable?

Hi everyone I have been reading these boards for a very long time and have been more or less into ABDL stuff for years. I decided to become a member and seek for some advice and help others! I will try to explain my situation, my mother tongue is not English so please feel free to ask questions if you do not understand something here. I am 31M. Long story short I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, my body attacks the "brain" of my spine and there are other problems too. I get flares which results in weak leg muscles, muscle seizures. I can walk, I am not disabled, I do sports but mostly it is swimming these days. When I get this flare I must sit down every 15-20 minutes if I am walking, these flares last for days, weeks. In addition with that I started having problems with my bladder and all pelvic floor muscles altogether. I have been dealing with this for 2 years now and normally I could control my bladder just I do not have the capacity that I had before. I would get rare incontinence episodes that I could manage with basic pads, sometimes bedwetting. Last 3 months my bladder went seriously downhill. I am having another MRI soon. I had tons of tests done with my bladder, some seriously painful. I also had various bladder relaxing medicine. I came here to seek for advice as someone who wears for need. And I am there to help with my knowledge!