[ABDL Meet-up Austin TX]

Hello,

I am in New Braunfels and looking for people to hang out with. Would love to hear more about your regular meeting.

Mike

[New Braunfels, Texas looking for real life friends]

Hello, I am located in New Braunfels, Texas and am on the lookout for ABDLs to hang out with and see where things go. I would love to just have some friends to talk to or play with.

I am a 48yo Male Bi/Pan Sexual, I enjoy playing games (board games, rpgs, and computer games), watching movies, and eating out. I am mostly in the Sub/little role.

I have been a DL and part of the BDSM community for a long time and have only recently (7 months or so) begun to realize I am also into the AB side of things, and have been trying to get into the ABDL community.

[Who has used TREST diapers?]

So other than the price, I like Trest a lot.

I have worn one for 16 hours of pretty heavy wetting with no leaks

They are some of the more comfortable diapers I have worn and I think they are more comfortable than a Megamax

I would say that I have gotten more pee into a Trest than a Megamax before leaking, but that is just by estimation of course. 

Yes they swell up quite a bit when you wear them that long

For it to be comfortable on a long car ride like that I would definitely wear sweat pants or something that will allow the diaper to expand freely

I have never had issues with the tapes or any other part of the diapers.

[What was the first ever diaper you put on when you first started your ABDL adventure?]

When I was a teenager I made diapers out of whatever I could get away with in the house, old rags, towels, paper towels. I didn't buy diapers until I was an adult out of the house, and then it would have been whatever I could get at the local medical supply store. 

[Thoughts on what happened to me this week.]

@~Brian~

Shine:

https://www.furaffinity.net/gallery/babystar/folder/39668/Shine-An-AB-DL-comic

 

Found:

https://www.furaffinity.net/gallery/toddlergirl/folder/52012/Found

 

They are actually the same author one is a SFW account and the other is a NSFW account

[Thoughts on what happened to me this week.]

So earlier this week I had been reading a bunch of babyfur comics after someone posted a link to the "Shine" comics on here, and sent me down a rabbit hole. A couple of the comics (Shine and Found) I found were very emotionally intense. So here I am crying myself to sleep in my. bed with my stuffie and a pacifier in my mouth. The next day I went to lunch with my wife and as she was leaving to go to work I started crying while I was hugging her goodbye. Then when I got home I felt that I had to put on a diaper, a onesie, and just kind of hung out on the bed with my stuffed animal and pacifier in my mouth again, crying on and off for a while, and feeling a little panicked, I thought I was coming unglued.

I eventually managed to get the feelings to go away and go about my day, but I haven't felt emotions that intense in as long as I can remember. Anyone have any ideas what was happening? Anyone have this kind of thing happen to them? I have only been exploring this AB side for maybe 5 months, I have been a DL and MedFet for years (since I was 14)

[Man breaks into day care, steals diapers, pretends to be a baby, police say]

https://wlos.com/news/nation-world/man-accused-of-leaving-200-note-with-size-for-diapers-and-clothes-to-be-baby-danielle-daniel-seeler-inspire-learning-and-childcrare-brockport-new-york

This was posted in reddit today, thought it should get cross-posted here.

Reddit Post:

Clearly the man should not have done what he did, and assuming he is mentally able, he should know better and have to pay the price. He was leaving money, so clearly he understood what he was trying to get out of out.

I also feel sorry for the people involved, consent is an underpinning of our community, it is the first thing that is taught anywhere in our community,

The question I have is was he a member of any of the community's many groups? If he was why didn't he seek help from the community?

This most definitely reflects on the community as a whole, so much energy has gone into fighting the negative stereotypes of ABDL and anytime that any member of the ABDL community does something like this it reflects badly on all of us. It also plays into everyone else in the community that feels shame, guilt, and fear about being ABDL.

I should be clear I am referring to the ABDL community in general not dialydiapers.com

[Second guessing being a diaper lover]

Hey pamprdguy,

If you are like most of us and have a fetish from childhood/puberty, packing it in really isn't an option. As has been noted by many people in this group and others you can't get rid of your ABDL fetish, It's part of you no diifferent than your gender and sexual identity. Feelings of guilt, shame and fear are common in our group and that is why we come together as a community to help support each other. 

For many of us just because it is called a fetish, it usually is not all sexual for us. For some there is no sexual component at all. We feel comfort, stress relief, and many other positive feelings when we wear diapers or go into little space. What you have to do is learn to accept the true you and not feel ashamed, guilty or fearful. It's probably the hardest part of this or any other fetish.

Don't let yourself feel alone, meet and chat with people online as a start, if you have local munches, attend those, whatever you do don't despair because you are not alone. The chat on dailydiapers is usually quite bust and has many people who will gladly talk to you about how you feel and about your interests.

[What Other Fetishes?]

So my main fetish is Medical in general i.e.

• enemas
• catheters
• sounds
• medical procedures in general

I also like

diapers

electricity

milking machines

vac beds

Anal, pegging, fisting

 

[Chat room down?]

Don't look at me, I just copied what the arrrowchat page was showing when I went to it. I was finally able to get in after clearing cache and local storage for the site and relogging in.

Although I agree 777 sounds like a bad plan.

[Chat room down?]

I am having issues too

 

My JS Console is showing:

Uncaught SyntaxError: Unexpected identifier 'includes'

 

If I go directly to the chat page I get this:

The includes/integration.php file does not exist. We recommend installing ArrowChat again making sure to CHMOD all necessary files/folders to 777 regardless of what the installer tells you. If you still have problems, please contact support at http://www.arrowchat.com/support/.

[Changing habbits]

Usually about 2-3 diapers a day for me. It really depends on how hydrated I am though. During the day doesn't usually last as long as the overnight one

[What’s everyone do for a living?]

17 hours ago, feralfreak said:

what was the elements that you think took away interest in the games?

@feralfreakIt's really hard to write games as an individual, it pretty much has to be a team sport. To write a good game you need people who can code, Do Graphics, Do Audio, etc... Even in the coding you have so many different types of code all of which you could spend your lifetime learning to be good at.

Most Graphics programmers are really only good at graphics, it's a huge sub specialty all by itself.

Generally speaking (Not universally true) getting a job in the gaming industry is one of the hardest sections of the software development community to work. They expect long hours and huge crunch time commitments. So you really have to want to do that to work in that industry and unlike the FAANGs(which also tend to have long hours) the pay is not the top pay you can get as a software developer.

I love games and I have several games that I would love to have written. Just wasn't going to happen.

[What’s everyone do for a living?]

On 2/17/2023 at 11:55 PM, feralfreak said:

this may be a stupid question, and the answer is probably "No" but are you able to write code for games?

@feralfreak I have written games in the past, They weren't exactly what I would call potential award winners or anything

[Caption this! as well]

Hey I think I was on that project

[What’s everyone do for a living?]

I am an independent Software Developer

[The pros of pullups]

For me I prefer a diaper whenever possible, but sometimes when I want to wear in public I will wear a pullup instead because they are more discreet, but as has been stated elsewhere they don't hold as much. 

[Wet the bed]

I leaked the other day and tossed the dirty onesie in the regular dirty laundry and my wife went to handle it and she was not impressed when she got a hand full of pee. Usually not an issue since I usually handle it, but she was moving it or something and she was not impressed.

[Would you have become a DL if there were no internet?]

I think the Internet has gone a long way to help remove the stigma of ABDL as well as many other fetishes and even just Sexuality and Gender Identity. 

As an example when I was young (1990-1992) I was caught by my parents being into Enemas and such, I was sent to a Therapist where the option was basically stop doing it or get institutionalized.

Literally the next school year I started college and learned about the Internet (Before it was generally available) and there was already a lot of stuff on there about this kind of stuff. It helped me realize that just because my interests were not in the mainstream that did not make them bad, nor did it make me bad, sick, mentally degenerate, or anything like that.

Long story short, I think the Internet had done wonders for the mental health and well being of everyone in any sort of "fringe" population group and gone a long way to help us feel like we belong to a community and that there is nothing wrong with us.