SoggyFroggy

This. Some of the comments here disgust me. As an openly autistic person, people need to quit acting like autism is a means of being able to discredit someone. Of course all the angry old men here had to come out full force and be assholes about a young woman with a passion for the environment. Really shows the sheer misogyny of some people here.

Wondering what happened to the AB/DL who once had that locker tbh Hopefully they're okay, but I have a bad feeling that something went very wrong. I fear that they may have died or something. Especially with how any AB/DL with good sense would make damn sure that all their locker fees got payed if they had that many diapers in their storage locker.

To be honest, as long as you're not obvious, like, as long as you're not obviously grunting/pushing/etc. when pooping, you should be fine to just go ahead and mess. Especially since you said you'd clean up right after. As much as I wouldn't want *complete* bowel incontinence, I still say you should do what makes you happy. And yes, while I'm not a mental health professional, I do believe you have some from of Body Integrity Dysphoria (BID). I'm in communities for people with BID, and there are a lot of people there who do talk about wanting to be perceived as disabled, particularly in accordance to their specific desire, which varies based on the individual. For example, a person with BID who desires to be mute would want to be perceived as disabled in the sense of being disabled by an inability to speak. You seem to have BID and want to be perceived as disabled from being completely dual incontinent.

Yeah, it's rare you'd see a person simulating a disability just for a "fetish." It's usually to alleviate severe, underlying dysphoria with their body and how it's configured. Sorry to harp on it a lot here btw, it's just something that I know not many people understand or know about. Same here! It's quite surprising how many people really feel like incontinence is something they can't live with. Especially as someone who has given so much thought (along with hours and hours of actual research involved to really understand it) about life with certain specific disabilities. Also yeah, imagine raising such a conversation over a lunch of ribs, just... all the side-eyes I'd get lmao I'm already awkward enough at social gatherings as-is, given my autism 😅

Chronically online people like to gatekeep things. I'm on Tumblr and see all kinds of ridiculous bullshit gatekeeping, same for TikTok. Yeah that's part of it as well, to be fair. However, I do want to correct you a little bit on one point: as a person who struggles with Body Integrity Dysphoria (BID), simulating a disability does not always mean the person has a fetish for being disabled or for being seen as such. Some people with BID simulate the disability or disabilities that they need. For example, a person with a BID-based need/feeling of needing to be paraplegic may use a wheelchair; another person with it may feel a need to be mute, and may chose not to speak, and instead use sign language or a communication device (such as using a tablet to talk.) I don't wish to start any arguments here, it's just a small little thing that bothered me enough to address it.