The first person I told was my mother when she found them in my bedroom. I was in high school at that time. I explained that I was using them for sexual relief. My mom was very understanding and helped me hide them from my father. When I met my wife after the Navy, I had the courage to tell her of my love of diapers and was lucky that she was very supportive. My wife would change me and fluff my diapers after she put them on me. I'm greatfull that I don't have to hide my diapers.