Were there any situations when y'all were growing up where you remember just kinda letting accidents happen? Not on purpose necessarily, though that can count too, but what i mean also includes choosing not to prevent accidents and not focusing on making it to the potty. Also maybe deciding that going in your pants, accidentally or otherwise was better than any available alternatives such as public bathrooms, going outside, or having to take a break from play. Also, this is all regardless whether or not you were padded