as a DL, I find this comment (and Julie's) much like what I have heard from females I've met who are DL. My interest is mainly in the woman who wears and wets, since I've rarely worn diapers
myself and I really like it BEST when SHE wears. I guess that's why I hit it off so well with my first g/f who wore for need, but found the pleasure in diapers, too. I was fascinated by her peculiar 'needs' for diaper use and learned how to please HER unmet needs in this rather unusual fetish. I understood how intimate this can become and yet how difficult it was for her to explain to potential lovers. She, too, was not given any attention of respect. It was all about the MALE getting his satisfaction. Well, I took a different approach and expressed my true feelings on how much a diapered woman attracts and excites me. This delighted her and she was so happy I paid attention to her desires...which only delighted me in return, too. So for Untiedark and Julie, let me say is I hear you and understand. This is based in the fact I've had some rather nice diapered relationships in the past, and the women could certainly verity that!
Good luck to both of you in finding that guy who puts YOUR needs first!
John