I think it's clear that DiaperDragon is going to refuse to accept me as female and use state law as his backing, maiking like a confomist who pretends to abide only by the law,
no one person can follow the law 100% because there's a ton of antiquated laws that don't reflect modern living/unique situations... I'm sure that mindset makes you a very unpleasant person to talk to, you're focused on not recognizing people's personal identities and supporting the laws that do. This is a boring, troll-tastic conversation, arguing about the semantics of free speech on the Internet is so 2004. I'm female everywhere I go, I don't need the law behind me for that. Again, I rarely find myself in discriminatory states and when I am, no one will no the difference because I have an F on my NY and CA ID.
Least you could do is take a moment and learn how to spell my name right.