as far as the fecal incontinence goes, your only route to this is some major body modification, ala colo-rectal surgery. I see that you're a sissy; perhaps lots of very rough anal sex with very large men, and possibly toys, etc? The rectum is really the only thing that keeps it all in. Abuse yours properly, and after a period of time, you'll notice a significant difference. These things also take time and due dilligence; I suggest you invest in both.