Hi all. Okay, here is a quick review and update for those who are interested.
As I stated earlier, my ex found this site and this thread on my computer. This obviously caused some serious issues, particularly what I was saying about CG. She told CG about what she saw and CG then left me the message that you all saw. I then contacted CG and we met for lunch to discuss it. That went very well. My ex and I then had a long discussion that ended in us breaking up and me moving downstairs.
Late Friday afternoon I found an apartment complex I liked that had an apartment available. I signed the lease and move most of my stuff over the weekend. A bed and some furniture will be delivered today hopefully and I will permanently move there. I'm thinking about looking for a house to buy when my lease runs out, I'm tired of renting.
CG and I hung out over the weekend as much as possible. I am very much enjoying the time we spend together, so hopefully it will all work out well.