There are open minded and empathetic people out there. Probably the best way to find them is to be flexible in our expectations and just be open to progressively enlarge our social circle. There's no need to rush. A solid mutual trust usually grows slowly through shared experiences. Be ready to accept the good and the not-so-good facets of the counterparts, but also never place the key to your own happiness into someone else's pocket.  

Pee finds S.A.P.  Plastic-lined ecosystem  Warm wetness cosets 

I love to looks of the Alpha GatorZ diapers,  but they don't seem to hold a whole lot for me.  I'm currently wearing a Tykables Soggers diaper and really love it.  I'm new to Tykables diapers and am really impressed with them so far.  This Soggers diaper is a cloth backed diaper.  It's pretty thick,  quiet and very comfortable.  The velcro tapes are very strong.  It was tough to choose between this print and the Potty Monsters diapers,  but ended up choosing the Soggers diapers. 

Being a switch in this space can oddly make things easier or much harder. Having been in the community for decades now I've lost track of the number of people sharing stories about having a partner be a switch and have them then only predominantly be one role, little usually, instead of both over time. Personally I knew I could never be with a switch as seeing my Daddy as a little would absolutely lead to me having a hard time seeing them as a Daddy again. There are folks for whom dating a switch is great but I've seen way more sad tales than happy ones.

I use these for short stints as well - cheap and not too unreliable, as long as you remember that you're flying an ultralight, not a jet, and plan your range accordingly.  I'm in a BeDry Night right now. Comfy diaper.