I want to help but I'm not sure if I fit into "regressive" ab or not--I like some babyish things-- diapers,use a bottle/pacifier, have a blanky, but I don't pretend I'm a baby while using them, I'm still my normal adult self doing and thinking normal adult things. For example, I drink beer out of the bottle and suck on it while talking on the phone or watching a non-childish movie.