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Really excited for the next chapter:)

All I'm wearing currently is my last Sunkiss Masterpiece, my watch, and my glasses. I  love to only be in a diaper when at home, and this one I can wear for the rest of the day.

I'm actually in a similar position. Staying at a place with my parents while on a trip to see extended family for a week. And this will be the first time I've stayed with them since becoming a frequent bedwetter. I agree with the advice posted above. Like you, I'd prefer nobody finds out, so I'll just be bringing extra garbage bags so I can discreetly dispose of any nighttime diapers I end up using, and I'll be extra careful about noise when I'm changing in/out of a diaper. That being said, I'm also going to prepare for the unlikely case that someone finds out. I don't want my parents thinking I've been bedwetting for long (as they'll ask why I haven't seen a doctor about it), so I'd probably say that I've had some very mild incidents over the last month, and wanted to be extra cautious for the trip.

I had an accident in the first grade during reading time. We were siting on a large rug in the back of the classroom, and our teacher was reading Beverly Cleary's “The Mouse and then Motorcycle”. I needed to pee but didn’t want to miss the end of that day's chapter, so I was trying to hold it. It got to the point where I knew I wasn’t going to make it much longer, and just at that moment another student got up and took the bathroom pass, a large wooden spoon, and left the classroom. If you needed the bathroom in between times the entire class went together (on the way to lunch, recess), one student at a time could take the pass and go without having to get permission.  Being a rules follower, and still wanting to hear the end of the chapter, I waited for the student to return. I didn’t last that long and soon I felt the warmth spread under me as my bladder let go and I quietly wet my pants while still sitting cross-legged on the carpet. I held my hands in my lap to try and hide the wetness until the teacher was finished reading, but couldn’t hide my wet pants when I had to stand up and walk back to my desk. My teacher discreetly asked if I’d had an accident and sent me to the school nurse where they called my mom to bring a change of clothes. Mine wasn’t the only accident in class that year, and they were always handled with compassion from our teacher and I don’t remember any significant teasing from the other students either. My experience a few years later wasn’t so good 

Hi all. I have been making progress on my journey. As written previously, I had considered taking a shortcut by getting procedures done away from home (India, other locations) but my symptoms have progressed to the point where my urologist at home (California) wants to take the next steps. The immediate next step is to get Botox in both bladder neck and external urinary sphincter. The hope is to make it easier for me void so that as to prevent urgency spikes when my bladder fills over the baseline of 250 ml or so. He has put the decision into my hand, understands that I am ok with the expected leaking, which is fine since I wear diapers anyway. The Botox in BN and EUS is a diagnostic step before deciding to resect both BN and EUS to make the leaking permanent. My appointment for the Botox is in August.