The only thing that really worked to prevent side leaks for me was using a high quality disposable with a pair of terry cloth lined plastic pants. Another alternative might be to use a pair of regular brief style underwear between your diaper and a pair of plastic pants. I wear this combo daily now to catch any leaks from my diapers as I tend to wear them to their saturation point. Hey...they're expensive to buy so I've got to get all the mileage I can out of them😁
The reason I mention this method is that people might only have one or two pairs of the terry cloth lined pants but we all usually have multiple pairs of underwear. In this method the underwear might get wet but you throw that in the laundry instead of the terry lined pants. Might save some time and money.
I will still wear my terry cloth lined pants if I'm sleeping at relatives or in hotels for a couple of nights. Kins makes some wonderful ones. They're located in Richmond BC, Canada.
I use a tripod that I bought to hold my smartphone. I have gradually found a position and stance where I can take pictures of myself from the front, side and back.
When I need to take a picture, I set the camera's shutter delay to 10 seconds so that I can get in position before the camera takes the picture.
Solid white diapers. To me, they are the most baby-like.
I also like white diapers with big, cute, simple prints, like Safari and Little Kings.
I don't like the other solid colored, striped, polka dot diapers and the overly decorated graphics on most ABDL diapers.
I am considering trying the move my underwear to an inconvenient place trick. I feel like it’s easier for me to diaper up when I’m at home but find excuses for things I know I have coming up being reasons to wait until after. The big one I have for that is pride fest and not sure if I can deal with diapers while being out and about for that. I also feel like there will be something coming up like summer and wanting to go swimming or vacations that I’ll keep using as an excuse to wait though.