@Joey_AB_DL: This reminds me of my two trips to Disney World (in Florida) (as an adult).
By the time of the first trip to Disney World, I needed (cloth) diapers at night. (It would be years before disposable options would work for me at night, thanks to ABDL community.) I was concerned about if my bladder capacity was sufficient for the line lengths, and so wore to the park. I try to keep the diapers dry, and so use the rest rooms. Turns out I was OK for the length of the lines (OK, the Fast Pass usage at that time helped with this). What I didn't expect is I'm not used to the warm Florida weather, so going to dinner at one of the park restaurants, I relieved myself (at the rest room) right before entering the restaurant and sitting down at our table. The restaurant was air conditioned, but the body was still partiality processing the warmer weather. Since I had just (fully?) emptied my bladder, I left it in a mode where I should be able to fill to maximum capacity, expecting to have no problem throughout dinner. Well, the body was wanting to re-hydrate, and after the third glass of lemonade -> resulted in a full bladder and the relaxed state I was in was the wrong choice. End result - soaked (cloth) diaper, to the point I unexpectedly left a little of the processed lemonade on the floor. Fortunately this trip we were staying at the Disney resort right out the back gate of the park we ate in and I was able to fairly quickly change my diaper and shorts and return. That's one of the few times I've miscalculated during the day.
By the time of the second visit, I had some of the Tykables (older) shortalls. As an engineer, I'm after functional clothing, and I find the snap crotch shortalls easier to deal with in (public) bathrooms with my diapers than wearing shorts (in warm weather), as I don't have to drop the (snap crotch) shortalls to the floor or take them off while I'm dealing with the diaper. Only issue that (slightly) came up is getting the hand wand at the metal detector at the gate after failing the overall body metal detection. (Newer Tykables shortalls use Velcro, so wouldn't have this issue.) They had no issue with the metal snaps in the clothing of the (older) shortalls (yes, it beeps), so I'm sure I wasn't the first one to wear them into the park. (I let my vanilla? sibling review my clothing option before leaving the hotel room to go to the park, so while not "normal" I wasn't too far off with a long sleeve sun (protection) shirt over the top. From the back, it looked like un-tucked shirt and shorts.)
It's the same with me. I suspect it's because deep down I know she doesn't like this part of me and so I try to keep the mechanics of it out of her face.
We're different there. I wear them every night to bed (well, every night I'm in disposables). They've seen fire repeatedly over the last week with an outbreak of cold weather so it's just as well I *was* in them.
I've basically abandoned pyjama pants: it just seemed like pointless washing. I just sleep in my uber-nappy-pants and a t-shirt. This means in the morning, I'm often up out of bed walking around clad thusly. She just grimly ignores it. Obviously I've removed the uber-nappy-pants before I leave the bedroom but will usually marinate on in my night nappy for a while - under pants though.