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dad: i finish putting it together and stack the changing table mom: i place the order for same day delivery   

If it's warm/hot out, most times it's just t-shirt and diapers for me! But I don't like flaunting my diapers to my gf too much, so I usually have shorts on. If it's cool/cold out, then I usually have on socks and pants to keep warm.  But my toesies get cold no matter what time of year it is, so I always have my house slippers!

I walked in the nursery the following morning and walked over to the crib. “How did my little girl sleep today?” I said as I unlocked the side and opened the crib. “Smells like someone had a busy night huh?”

I am nigh on convinced that a lot of our issues with bedwetting progress, and untraining in general, is because of mental blocks.  We are _so_ afraid of leaks, and actual wet beds with the subsequent hassle of washing and cleaning, that our brain does not allow us to ever get to the point of a leak.  We absolutely know, and are reinforced with it each time we change, that thick disposables are excellent at capturing and trapping wee, but only in two positions (lying down on our backs, and being upright).  When we are on our side, there's no padding there to trap the wee, so we feel the pee run across our hips, wake up, and reposition ourselves, so we don't leak.   There is no padding in those wings, so there's nothing to trap the pee, and our brain is ever watchful for the sensations of wee being in unauthorised locations.  So, the mental block is that we ultimately do not trust our disposables to contain everything, when we are asleep.   Yes, there are strategies to contain the pee, like plastic pants, but the mental block is still there.  When I transitioned to cloth nappies at night, I noticed a subtle but noticeable shift - the block disappeared.  Once you realise you don't need to care about which position you sleep in, the fear of leaking and a wet bed disappear, you sleep more soundly, wake up less, and the progression in untraining increases a bit more exponentially.  I started to transition in pee dreams from initially waking up from the dream at the point in the dream where I was recognising I need to wee, to waking up at the point in the dream where I was about to wee, to (currently) waking up at the point where I'm weeing in the dream.  Does this mean I'm weeing in real life?  I suspect so, but it's hard to gather evidence to form a conclusive view.  Is this a concerning development? Another mental block?  I did an experiment a while back to feel what it would be like if I had submitted to surgical incontinence, just dripping and dribbling uncontrollably.  When cleaning my cloth nappies and plastic pants in my ensuite (so effectively being naked for a bit until I changed into a fresh nappy), I'd often get a "running water" wee urge, and reflexively clamp up.  The experiment was to just let things happen, and yes, I'd eventually feel pee running down my legs onto the bathroom floor.  I did this enough times that it became a bit of a problem after the experiment ended.  The block had been removed, and brain thought it was still ok to pee onto the floor, so I'd have to fight the urge.  Instant and unwanted kegel training.  I sorta don't trust myself now when naked in front of the bathroom sink... It's a vicious circle.

I actually love Little Caesars when it's hot. It's probably the only pizza from a chain that isn't good reheated or cold.