Hi,
sorry never got back to you.
Thanks for messaging me. Where in NY are you?
I love being a baby girl so much and would love to meet another with the same interest.
Sasha
Clench: When you use the toilet, let the fluid out, then intentionally stop peeing half way. The process you stop peeing is called clenching.
Relax: The feeling when you let the fluid out.
Held open forcefully: When you pee, do it as hard as you can, try to keep your muscles down there that way after the flow stops.
It's not hard, more like when you get it, you just get it. You will get it in time.