What a great time to be a diaper user. There are so many new and interesting ABDL diapers coming out that you don't have the time or money to buy and try every single one. 🙃
Even when using the toilet I don't flood at my age. If I have a diaper on and have to pee, I pee but it's not what I would call a flood. When I pee it starts strong but then it slows down to a trickle and goes into a start and stop mode. When wearing I usually wet small amounts frequently, every 10 or 15 minutes.
This is interesting. When I was much younger in my 20's, I tried something a couple times. I put on a rubber and secured it in a way so that it wouldn't slide off. Then I put on a diaper. I waited until I really had to go, then peed into the condom until it filled up like a water balloon. Then I sat down hard enough for it to burst, totally soaking my diaper in one fast move. That was a very interesting feeling, especially with a store type diaper instead of an absorbent premium diaper.