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BID, or Body Integrity Dysphoria, formerly known as BIID, is the dysphoria we feel when our bodies don't align with our internal understanding of how we should functionally operate (at least in this context), which is what @DAQ was referring to. For a lot of people, becoming diaper dependent and incontinent is a fantasy that one faps to and then forgets about it because they wear diapers and the idea seems nice for a few short minutes (which is more aligned with your understanding of a "lifestyle"). For others, like myself and @DAQ, this is a persistent dysphoria that affects our mental health for not being able to be incontinent. When we fail at untraining ourselves to match our internal mental map of ourselves, we become a little more than frustrated or even experience a varying degree of depression and a lot of anxiety surrounding the issue. We're not here to modify our bodies to fit a lifestyle. It's a part of our core identity, which is what he was saying, and thus why it's most commonly compared with being transgender, because the internal mechanisms of and experiencing dysphoria are pretty much the same thing. How one deals with that dysphoria is part of why we're untraining in the first place. @Slomo, agreed. It feels incredibly unfair, but it is what it is. 

I second the advice of wearing terry=lined plastic pants, they will save you a wet bed. I use the double lined plastic pants from BabyKins over a quality overnight disposable, and have never had a leak get pass that protection. They are a bit bulky, but that adds to the whole diapered  experience.

I luuuvvvvv this story...i wish i was cindy!!

It will certainly be a rough few days for Heather while everything gets sorted out…is a Dr visit planned I wonder to determine things as well?

YPP (Your Pal Patches).   Another "cloth"-backed diaper and 2nd night in a row for one.  Very much like the Try Agains in feel and construction.    About to head off to bed and it's pouring buckets right now along with loud thunder bursts. Never fails - just as I'm on the cusp of actually falling asleep, one will go off and I'll be wide awake again.