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If a given state has something like initiatives submitted by the people/ voters, except for the presidential primary or caucus, both parties don’t need to be in agreement.

Adam Hamilton, the senator elect from Kansas is a self described moderate and has been registered as both a Democrat and Republican at various times.  I'm not saying it is easy, but it does happen. Particularly in times like this.  I'm also a fan of the ranked-choice-ballot, but both parties need to agree to do it and it must be done by the states. 

Feederism has two roles, the feeder and the feedee.  The feeder may derive pleasure from many aspects of the role - supplying food, cooking, hand feeding or watching the other consuming the food and gaining the weight. This creates a classic master - servant OR dependee role, where the feeder acts as care taker / surrogate parent for the feedee. Studies have shown that some feeder's have an overdeveloped maternal/paternal need - to take care completely of the feedee. This is where there is a cross over to the ABDL world, where the feeder becomes the care taker of the feedee, including, when the feedee's weight gets large enough, nappy/diaper changing, cleaning the feedee. The feedee is seens as the servant, but it is usually on the direction of the feedee that the feeder acts - feeding the feedee what s/he want to consume.  From a medical perspective, both parties are in a spiral where either medical / legal step in to stop it, or death occurs. If one over-eats (eats more than the energy that they are using), the excess is stored as fat. This fat will put pressure on all organs which leads to internal organ failure. When they get to a excess level, classed as bariatic, which shockingly enough, a lot of us are very close to it - i.e. do you wear the large / extra large nappies/diapers -  do you get out of breath running up or down stairs - if you had to run from a threat, could you? - If you answer yes or maybe to the first two, they maybe you are a little unfit. Back to topic - At that weight, excess pressure is placed on our joints and limbs, so much so that if we step a little awquardly, we twist our ankle etc. Consider that the human body was designed to run across uneven ground where we would need to flex all our joints even sideways to avoid becoming a meal of a preadator. When one gets to that weight, without intervention, death is just a matter of time. Even if there is medical personell on hand, very few medical personal and equiptment can handle that level of fat / weight.   @Fatpiglet Can I presume that you are a feedee based on your title, and that has linked you to the ABDL world - i.e. the need to wear diapers, and it is for need based on ability to get to a bathroom? If that is true, what I see is you looking for a care giver who is also a feeder. In this comunity, the care givers are rare and unique people, where there is a higher proportion of adult babies as compared to care givers.  In a relationship, as most here can attest to, or have learnt the hard way, there is give and take which is called compromise. In the ABDL world, some of the care givers are also adult babies, so at times, the baby - adult roles get reversed. Yes, there are the feeders out there, as the world is full of individual people, but I would make a wild guess that it would be extremely rare to find a feeder here. After all, the adult in any relationship is also the prime source of finance unless the baby is financially independent / financially secure. Yes, it eventually comes down to money and love. The care giver in the relationship needs to love and respect the baby in their charge, and the baby needs to have some financial independence where they are not 100% dependent on the income of the care giver. This is where the A in ABDL rears its head... the adult side of every relationship is the one that keeps it together OR disolves it for something better if that original relationship is one sided or toxic. @Fatpiglet I wish you luck in your search, but I doubt if you will find one here, as this site, although vast, has :- Adults who need nappies / diapers as either a comfort item, or to prevent them soiling clothes / furniture etc. Adults who offer care and assistance to other adults that wear nappies/diapers with / without the added infantile paraphanalia. where people in group 1 can easily switch to group 2 or visa-versa or whatever role that suits them at the time. Yes, the care giver can partially fit into the feeder role, and the baby can fit into the feedee role, but although there is some cross-over, there is the adult side that at times steps in, where the adult does things like earn money and other boring things that adults do... where in the Feedism fetish, both parties is seeking the fastest way for the feedee to gain weight, where any physical excertion would be counter-productive in that goal - even walking to one's car to drive to a place of work (for the feedee) and the feeder leaving the feedee would place the feedee in a exposed and dependant position - after all, one with a dependant child does not leave them unsupervised at anytime. Despite what we, in the ABDL world dream, if we were actually treated 24/7/365 as a pre-communicative baby, it would very quickly destroy us mentally - but the feedee in the feedism fetish needs to be treated like that to assist with the weight gain, the goal of both parties within Feedism fetish. This also prevents the feeder from ever leaving the side of the feedee, which means that both parties need to be financially independent.    

Exactly! This is what i have experienced lately. Im glad you doing better. Take care of yourself. Don't like those dark stories 😊

Does anyone else have issues when there pooping with an almost involuntary push when popping there diaper.  I just wanna relax and let it come out. It I always seem to push even if I tell my self not to it’s just like a reflex.  Anyone else deal with this.