Not sure I'm the best person to give advice on this so take it with a grain of salt, but seems like you need to mentally prepare your wife for someone in your friend group or family finding out that you are incontinent now. Not saying you should plan to tell anyone. Just that the chances of someone finding out, or even already have noticed your diapers are not zero.
I would also recommend to sticking to white diaper when in those public group situations. Imagine some random prank where someone was to pants you (far fetched but my mind thinks in worst case lol) and not only are you wearing a diaper, its a pink mega max or cartoon printed abdl diaper.
I'm a big fan! You are an inspiration. So I don't mean to over step with this advice, I just wish you all the best!
When the big changing stall opened up Camila took Madison's hand and took her in, "Proud of you sweetie." Camila whispered in Madison's ear before taking her into the changing stall, after she helped Madison out of the pull up, she cleaned her with a baby wipe before exiting to changing room.
The logistics are tricky or I would buy a bag. A two pack for $12 would be ideal.
I'm in the middle of a binge wearing spell so if that is still the case at the end of this month when I fly to Japan I may swing by that store sooner than later.