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I catch my diaper waistband showing now and then. I wear elastic waist pants and shorts so sometimes they slip down a little. Other times my t-shirt will get caught on the top of my diaper waist so my diaper shows. The airplane thing just happened to me the other day. I was putting my carry-on in the overhead. When I put my arms down my t-shirt was caught on the top of my diaper waist. That’s just part of being a toddler I guess.

So, I'm trans. I've considered the "AB/DL = trans" analogy myself. I think cis people, and for that matter trans people, should be very careful with it, but there are also more parallels than I'd like to admit. (This does not mean that being an AB/DL is a "transness-like thing", for the record; there are also many parallels between gender transition and, for example, the conversion process required by the religious law of my faith of choice, but, quite rightly, people don't claim that's a "transness-like thing".) You're right to say that the medical consensus process for helping someone who's trans doesn't include rushing them to the operating room. Counseling and therapy are a part of that process as it exists. However, this is not an outcome of the process evolving from a carefree and heedless starting point to an attitude of judicious caution. Quite the reverse: the first modern (1) formal processes for gender transition were tremendously hyper-restrictive, preventing many from being able to access medical transition who needed it, and causing much harm as a result. In the last few years, certain political elements have mounted a campaign to use the legal authority of the state to forcibly restrict, regress, and limit the provision of trans healthcare. However, those political elements are consistently clearly and verifiably not doing so out of compassion and care for transgender people, but, rather, out of a boiling animus which motivates those who experience it to ban care because doing so will cause harm. In the main, the progression of the standards of trans healthcare has been toward greater liberalisation and fewer barriers. For instance, for the last few decades, more and more medical providers have been exploring what is known as the informed consent model, where hormone replacement therapy, most people's primary transition measure (sex reassignment surgery is optional, comes a lot later, and is often placed beyond trans people's reach even if they desire it), is provided simply on the person's own recognisance. Perhaps from an outside point of view this seems dangerously laissez faire, but the reality is that, in general, people will not seek trans healthcare who do not want it, and higher barriers are not an effective way of preventing people from realising they don't want it after the fact. I'm pretty sure I can infer which subforum you're talking about, but I didn't see the thread in question. However, based on what I can infer, my attitude must remain the same: where the matter relates to an individual and the relevant decisions will be made by that individual, counselling caution, or self-censoring in an attempt to foster greater caution, are unlikely to be productive courses of action. It is significantly preferable simply to ensure that the person is as informed as you can help them to be, and to generally do whatever we can to help them pursue their desired action safely and, if it turns out they don't actually want it, to help them reverse it.

“No no please he said trying to spit her nipple out but she made sure he couldn’t!    Oh no she’s really going to Breast feed me like an infant.   She patted his diaper hard like a reminder spanking.   He decided he had no choice but to be good!  The new baby kept suckling what the hell I’m going to drink her milk like a infant.. cryjng what the hell how far is she going to take this! He thought to himself  He started to get fussy  “Done done!” He whined but she wasn’t done with him and that’s the way it was.. She decided when eh was not him!  He’s the baby and she’s the adult in charge… Even worse she’s the MOMMY!!   

Welcome! There's a large contingent of incontinent DL's here, so you should fit right in!

I'm a big guy with high-waisted pants. Normally not a problem for me.