It's a heavy thought to sit with, and losing the choice would be really tough. But I think that constant mental wrestling is just part of the ABDL experience as it's something that stays with us, so naturally we need to talk about it. It definitely makes me appreciate being able to wear for comfort rather than medical need... but it is mentally exhausting for sure sometimes.
It's like the jedi knights of bladder control lol
I've been wearing the same Megamax diaper all day. And I've barely leaked in it at all. Amd I'm keeping it on till tomorrow morning. Going tocmake this a 24 gour diaper.
I haven't had that happen in over a decade. Of course it's thanks to the Foley catheter I have in place for the next week. I'm even on those meds that make your pee fluorescent orange. It's very concerning to look at, but actually a good thing for my healing.
But, but, some of that clashes with the narrow scope of others beliefs. PJs in a theater could be the same as making yourself ready to flash someone else. Better call the cops for child endangerment. And putting up christmas lights before the ground is covered in snow could be an even bigger hazard. Other people might accidentally look at them, maybe even before Thanksgiving. That deserves about 6 or 8 calls to the city code enforcement.
Of course I'm making fun of anyone who might think this way, but it's sad to know there are people out there who actually do think like that. If anyone needs cracking down on hard, it's the "Karens". Like you said, for yucking someone else's yim.