Diaperloverpartner

Thank you for the advice both of you. I did ask him to do the enema for me and his first reaction was "but I like the part after" so then I felt awkward asking for anything else. He's not turned on by wetting, only messing, and I'm fine with it. This was my second time messing a diaper with him. I did suggest taking it one step at a time instead of trying to fully fulfill both of our most elaborate fantasies at once. He agreed but seemed disappointed by that. I just want to be as good as any DL. I do want to do it. The way he gets when I wear a diaper is so hot, such a turn on, he gets so passionate, I love it. I guess I'm just trying to figure out how to love the diapers themselves, not his reaction to them.

Hi! I am a diaper lover's girlfriend just trying to figure out how to make him the happiest and get into this with enthusiasm and creativity!!

I've known from almost day one that my boyfriend is a DL and it didn't bother me. In fact, I told him that when we became official then I would wear them with him, and when he told me he was in love with me I would mess with him. About a week ago I found messages of him sexting another DL which we both considered cheating. I forgave him and am giving him a second chance. I became determined to live up to his fantasies and we finally tried on Saturday and failed horribly. I had trouble giving myself the enema and came out to find him on his computer which I took as a slight. Then, because I had been constipated for a few days, pooping was extremely painful. I was sweating profusely and near tears. The next thing he wanted was for me to give him a lap dance in the dirty diaper. Not only did I fail at this because I'm not flexible/in shape, but I was so nervous that i just kept talking (a common theme throughout the entire escapade) which was not sexy. Then we tried to have sex in our messy diapers while I was tied to this web thing (I like being dominated so we were trying to mix our fantasies) and both of us ended up too nervous and too tired to orgasm. It was an epic fail and I know he was so disappointed (I'm the first girl who has ever been willing to do this in RL with him) and all I want is to get better at it.

Hi! My boyfriend is a DL (specifically wearing and pooping [messing] in them)