How to bring it up with partner?

[Anonymous12]

Hi guys,

  I’m gay and I developed slight urinary incontinence over the past couple months. I’m worried about meeting a guy and being rejected for a possibility of a wet bed while doing adult activities.

  I’m also still confused about the biology behind cerebral palsy and why it doesn’t show up until your 20’s. I’m kind of in between denial and anger. I wish there was a possibility to go back to regular underwear but pads are too hard to change and I need protection.

 Has anyone ever dealt with these feelings?

[DiapermanAl]

Just be straight up honest. And you can always use a bed pad/chux on the bed. Heck maybe your partner might be into water sports.?

[Anonymous12]

Do you know of any “success” stories?

[DiapermanAl]

Yes my own. I had dated a few who had no issues with my incontience. And my current wife had no issues.