Baby Girl Sarah Posted December 4, 2018 Share Posted December 4, 2018 The main reason i urge for said Contract /List is as also been stated in the above replies the risks of getting side tacked so to say (ie said Sub /AB in this case feels wrongly treated on the count that Ab`s Mommy haven't gotten to know AB`s limitations and vice verse if AB (lets use the example of Pooping and peeing in said diapers and then expect Mommy to happily deal with this does risking to cause a disturbance in said Play and even an end to said play . im AL for letting the Dom having fee rains im my self that way as im a follower BUT its still vital to let said Dom know before you start whats the limits are in this RP from both sides Another example from another place there was this AB that were unhappy and felt uncomfortable that Abs Mommy made diaper check in public ,and also brought in other parties in said RP WITHOUT previous approval from said AB .Well needles to say said AB felt very unhappy with this situation and more or less dident know were to go how to deal with this and so on . THIS is why i talk so strongly for said AB /Sub contract to prevent this cind of misunderstandings This cind (AB Play Little play /Sissy Life etc... ) of RP is based on TRUST ,RESPECT and WILLINGNESS to give youre Dom the power over you BUT said Dom also needs to know youre limits and more or less said game plan should and need to be pre agreed on before hand to prevent sad story's that i have just relayed to you al. And last i have never said that the contract is written in stone its just as important to be able to alter as the situation demands and how both parties feel reg this and borders and boundaries are changing Link to comment
cookiemonster23 Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 If you're truly uncomfortable, then tell her. The most important part of a relationship like this is respecting boundaries, and she needs to know that she isn't doing that. Link to comment
Spanky Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 I just wonder if Mommy didn't understand your desires and had planned this out with her friend, thinking that maybe it was something you'd enjoy, because like others have said, "Who would do that???" I can't help but imagine what would have happened had you had a really messy diaper on and she stuck her hand down there and got a handful??? LOL Link to comment
Baby Girl Sarah Posted December 5, 2018 Share Posted December 5, 2018 9 hours ago, spider8itch69 said: If you're truly uncomfortable, then tell her. The most important part of a relationship like this is respecting boundaries, and she needs to know that she isn't doing that. WELL spoken dear Link to comment
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