aron in a nappy Posted October 6, 2018 Share Posted October 6, 2018 Hey everyone Has anyone in the UK got any experience of having a dbs check? I've got to do one for a coaching role but am worrying if this site might be picked up, I know it's probably unlikely but can't help but worry. I need to do it soon and dont want somwthing like this showing up to people I know and at the moment I can't stand to try and stay of this site for too long whilst it happens Thank you all Aron Link to comment
Frogboy Posted October 6, 2018 Share Posted October 6, 2018 It's mostly done through criminal records. If you've ever had a criminal conviction, it will probably appear on there. If it was a pretty minor offence (fine, caution etc) and it was more than 11 and a half years ago, it will be filtered out and not appear even on enhanced checks (I know because my offence got me a £150 fine and appeared on checks even after it was spent, but disappeared once they brought in the new rule about filtering). The barring part of DBS (Disclosure and barring service) refers to you being on a list for stuff like getting fired from a job for harming or trying to harm people (which your employer has a duty of law to report should you be fired for such a thing). Websites you visit is not a part of DBS checks*, enhanced or otherwise (I need enhanced checks for work, so I know). If you're not a convicted criminal and you aren't on any sex offender lists and you haven't lost a job because you tried to or actually did hurt someone then you'll be fine. Hope that helps. *unless those websites contained illicit material and you got caught viewing them and were subsequently charged and placed on a list, fined and/or placed in prison. 1 Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted October 7, 2018 Author Share Posted October 7, 2018 Thank you Frogboy That a huge help and has put my mind at ease. I thought that would be the case but couldn't help but worry that it might show up and didn't want to have people knowing about it. Link to comment
Frogboy Posted October 9, 2018 Share Posted October 9, 2018 Could you imagine if that sort of stuff did show up on checks?!? It would alter the hiring process a lot... For example, "Yes, this chap has all the right qualifications, years of experience in the appropriate field and his references are top notch... However, it appears he likes to lounge around his house wearing nappies and pleasuring himself whilst watching videos of large breasted redheads masturbating. Not sure he's the man for us. For one, we are an eco-friendly firm and those adult sized disposables are no friend to the environment. And for another thing, our receptionist is a large breasted redhead. Having those two together in a room with alcohol is just asking for a sexual harassment claim at the work's Christmas bash. Where's that fella who's into hard-core bdsm... at least we know he wont mind a good whipping when he does something wrong..." 1 Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted October 9, 2018 Author Share Posted October 9, 2018 Thank you Frogboy That had just given me a huge lift tonight and has had me laughing when I was earlier crying and having a rubbish evening. I can't thank you enough for you first helpful post and you post today. Aron Link to comment
Mr. Sea Otter Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Human sexual behavior is the ultimate skeleton in the closet. The good news is that most everyone has at least something stashed somewhere in that closet. I am of the opinion that society is, ever so slowly, becoming more accepting of the fact that kinks and quirks are not the automatic deal breakers. That is, so long as they only involve consenting adults. 1 Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted October 10, 2018 Author Share Posted October 10, 2018 Yeah I totally agree Sea Otter The world does seem to be becoming more and more accepting of people's kinks and quirks. Just didn't want it showing up on anything where people I know would find out. Link to comment
Turing001 Posted October 10, 2018 Share Posted October 10, 2018 Aron I'm in MK too. I wouldn't worry about your concerns - didn't stop me getting SC clearance. Just relax. good luck :-) 1 Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted October 11, 2018 Author Share Posted October 11, 2018 Thank you Turing001 That's really good to know. Nice to meet another person from MK as well. Link to comment
Pete671 Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 I have enhanced DBS for working with children, solicitor friend advised me that DLing is completely irrelevant, as long as I don't mention it to kids, not that I would have any interest in doing so,,, It really doesn't matter what your kinks are as long as you're discreet, ie keep them completely separate from your professional duties,,, Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted March 10, 2019 Author Share Posted March 10, 2019 Thanks Pete That's really good to know, I've always been keen to keep this side of me separate to my day to day side and never wanted to mix them. I'll let you all know how I've got on once I've finally done it. Link to comment
tommee Posted March 10, 2019 Share Posted March 10, 2019 Yeah dude don't worry about it. I used get checked when I worked at a college years ago and as long as you haven't been in trouble with the law you'll be fine. Good luck with your new job! Link to comment
nappylover78 Posted March 12, 2019 Share Posted March 12, 2019 Even so, I always think it's best to avoid associating your "vanilla" email address with ABDL activities, and definitely avoid using your real name in any publicly accessible forum. 1 Link to comment
Pete671 Posted March 16, 2019 Share Posted March 16, 2019 On 3/10/2019 at 11:09 AM, aron in a nappy said: Thanks Pete That's really good to know, I've always been keen to keep this side of me separate to my day to day side and never wanted to mix them. I'll let you all know how I've got on once I've finally done it. You're very welcome, looking forward to hearing you've passed, one thing though, I had to go through "enhanced", so had to declare a caution from over 20 years ago, if I didn't declare it, I would have failed, with enhanced screening, there is not the protection of "spent" convictions, although Frogboy, I'm sure, is much more knowledgable on the finer details than I am,,, Link to comment
aron in a nappy Posted September 22, 2019 Author Share Posted September 22, 2019 Hi everyone Thanks for all of the help and advise, I've been meaning to say this went fine, all passed ? Link to comment
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