mummyfriend Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 So my best friend recently told me he wore diapers and we've discovered together really that he's an adult baby. I'm his mummy which is something I love and I love looking after my little boy but he is my best friend and gay and there's nothing sexual to it. I guess I just feel quite alone in being a mummy to someone who isn't my boyfriend or similar...is anyone else in this position? How does it work for you? Link to comment
LittleMattyMoo Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I'm in the same situation but in the opposite roll. It's perfect for me because there is absolutely nothing sexual about it Link to comment
mummyfriend Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 It hasn't so far for us but we've only been baby and mummy for a month but does it ever get awkward for you at all? Being so intimate outside of a sexual relationship? Do people notice you are closer to your friend than is normal? Link to comment
LittleMattyMoo Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Our mutual friends know anyway so that's not an issue but there is a bit of an age gap between us anyway so it's not so far fetched. Link to comment
mummyfriend Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 Ah ok, only my fiancee knows about it...and my baby is actually older than me but not by much. Very new to this and everyone else seems to be dating their baby... 1 Link to comment
LittleMattyMoo Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Yeah that seems to be the general case. I've had a few people in the AB community tell me they think it's weird lol but to me it makes perfect sense Feel free to send me a message anytime Link to comment
mummyfriend Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 Yeah, it just works for us, nice to know there are other people in the same situation! Thanks Link to comment
Repaid1 Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 I know years before I got married again I had a dry spell with dating for about 10 years, sure I went out now and then, but never found any of the ones could of probably been ideal. During that time I had no problem finding women that just out of the blue took to the role of caring for me. We would go out and do stupid stuff like karaoke and shop and stuff. Just friends paling around kinda thing. I wear for incontinence as well as being a baby (coping strategy in a way). There was nothing sexual in between the 5 or 6 girls that "sat" for me. But it is a very intimate situation, I mean you are naked in front of them and they are touching "things" 1 Link to comment
mummyfriend Posted January 31, 2015 Author Share Posted January 31, 2015 Hi repaid1, I get cuddles and to look after someone, both something I really need and my OH isn't very touchy feely or vulnerable so it fills that void so to speak. My baby gets to be ickle. He's incontinent too and through that discovered he was AB. I love being mummy, there's an intimacy to it that I don't think you necessarily get with babysitters (I don't know, just the term isn't as intimate to me) Link to comment
Repaid1 Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 I get what you mean, but sitters, or real mommies for that matter don't have sexual relations with their true babies, so therefor to me. It is as intimate as it needs to be. Link to comment
Kaylaindiapers Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 Wow your financee knows, No way would I let that happen just like you said it's a intimate thing.. Which it is I had a mommy/gf for 5 years. now I just have a dear friend that baby's me and it works for us, she knows someday hopefully I'll find that special someone as I just don't have those kind of feelings for her. Link to comment
bbMe Posted April 25, 2015 Share Posted April 25, 2015 If you both enjoy the relationship and your fiance is good with it enjoy your time with him. Simple. Link to comment
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