Looking For Understanding?

[harry18]

Hi AB community. I thought you all might like to see some recent correspondence that I have had with The Times sex therapist, Suzi Godson. It now features on the home page of her website www.moresexdaily.com It might resonate with a few of you; I hope its helpful. Thats me!!

[LilFozzyJ5]

I did sit and read the whole thing and I am surprised. that lass has no ****ing idea... she bangs on about it should be sorted before marriage, and clearly you didnt have that ability, and nor did i.

when it can to be married I was still struggling with this as an inner demon, that if i told a soul i would be locked up, unwanted and not understood... a freak, something to be dispised. I didnt know what my desire was called, I didnt know about infantilism, or abdl or fetish... I was alone.

It wasnt until 5 or 6 yrs into the marriage when i stumbled upon a page of fetishes in a magazine called bizzare (Which was my wifes and something she has never brought since, goes to show you how deep the feeling of rejection goes there).

So how could I even know to get councelling, or tell my loved one or anything else...

How do you get a job like hers? doesnt seem like you need any qualifiactions... or understanding.