Easing Non Ab/Dl Female Partner Into Daddy + Ab/Lg Role?

[dudewheresmyname321]

Hey Everyone,

What is the best, easiest, most comfortable way to introduce your significant other (female preferably) to AB/DL-ism?

What if this significant other is a long term partner of yours that you care for alot and already shows some "regressive" behavior in the relationship, like stuffed animals, little kid talk, snuggling ect? What's the best way to explain the possibility of a Daddy + AB/LG without it sounding oedipal and "taboo"?

Also, not saying this to "force" someone into this kind of dynamic...but introduce to them as a possibility to learn/grow into?

[musicaddict]

Honest communication. Maybe a little role play involving power exchange to see if she's open to the idea of handing over control. But mostly, only you know your partner and can decide how to approach her. Some girls would rather have all the information at once and others need to slowly assimilate the knowledge. Either way be honest and open and it clear this isn't a make or break situation.

[fideliuscharm]

for what its worth - i think it is really dependant on how long you've been in the relationship with your SO - you have to be prepared that this will either be a deal breaker that will end the relationship, and or a deal breaker that will not be open for discussion/action.

You might want to start by telling your partner its something that interests you, and that you think you'd enjoy doing with them. And then leave the ball in their court - it gives them time to assimilate, ask questions etc and build a level of comfort with it.

fwiw its a discussion that I believe should come early on in the dating/relationship process to prevent any hurt feelings down the road in the form of kept secrets, etc

[sarah_ab]

i would also like to point out, that at least in western society, females collecting stuffed animals, talking 'baby talk' and wanting to 'snuggle' or cuddle is all considered natural adult female behavior and 'cute' in many instances... absolutely none of this means she would actually be willing to engage in ab behavior....

basically though,.... best bet is to first tell her that YOU like the whole ab/daddy idea first....