How To Meet Up With Other Abs Or Dls

[Diaper Lightning]

There seems to be enough of us in the Northern CA area to have a meet up. Has anybody ever started a thing like this? Where do you go and what do you? How do you get ahold of everyone and how does that "first" meeting go?

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You may have better luck in the meeting place forum on this site.

There have been various gatherings in different areas so it is fairly common.

[TDL]

I've had several (successful) meet-ups in Denmark, and I can tell you that they're loads of fun if you get the planning right.

First and foremost, you'll need a date. Find out when the group is going. Next, you'll have to find an activity, or even several activities! My favourite one is bowling, since you can show a little off (pun intended).

Now, depending on how much you're willing to spend on the meet-up, I suggest that you all pay for yourselves, hence you're all adults.

After the main activity/activities, you and the rest should be hungry. Find a nearby café where you can discuss related issues over a nice meal.

When everyone is finished, shake hands and go home, thinking about how awesome that meet-up was, and that you're looking forward to the next one.

Remember though, there might be someone who backs out in the last minute, so have a backup plan ready.