Looking For General Advice... I Think!?

[Jackson]

Hello All,

I've been wearing diapers off and on for (I believe) more than ten years. I can't remember exactly when I bought my first Depends, but it was a good long time ago. Perhaps as early as my late teens.

I don't remember why I initially became interested in diapers, but for some reason, I did. Some sort of subliminal attraction, I guess. There was definitely an erotic connection for me. Can't explain that, either, other than the diaper covers and comes in direct contact with an area of the body directly related to sex. I don't really think the title "Diaper Lover" fits me exactly either. I feel more like a "Diaper Advocate" or a "Diaper Enthusiast"! And the baby/sissy thing has no appeal to me at all.

Anyway, over the past few months, I've become increasingly interested in wearing diapers more frequently and during normal activities, even in public. Now please understand, I don't want the general public to know that I'm wearing them - voyeurism is definitely NOT the motive behind it (or at least I don't THINK it is, but maybe I'm just not being honest with myself ).

I actually feel there's a great deal of practicality to wearing diapers - especially while away from home. I'm a business owner as well as being very active outdoors so I am often nowhere near a bathroom. I find myself waiting until the last minute to pee or poop just because it's so damned inconvenient at the moment (which is not at all good for the body)! Even if I were always near a public restroom, I absolutely HATE to use them! And it never fails, when I've really gotta go, the only stall available is the one that doesn't have a door or the latch is broken. I'm sure you're all aware that holding your foot against the door while trying to take care of business can be very distracting!

Anyway, I have worn diapers on "test runs" a number of times and so far, so good.

For instance, I often freelance for a large company where proceedings may last more than 2 hours without interruption. My taking a "potty break" would basically bring the proceedings to a grinding halt, and possibly also the future of my contract. Not a "tena"ble (sorry couldn't help myself ) position. There have been several times where I've thought to myself "What if I have to go to the bathroom?" Well, of course as soon as you start to think about it, you've gotta go! So wearing a diaper on a few of these occasions was quite a comfort.

I even made a special trip to the mall just to see if I could "change myself" in a public situation. I packed up my wipes and a fresh diaper, put another diaper on, drove to the mall, and walked around for some time while I "worked one up". When I felt the time was right I let myself pee and actually managed to poop, too.

As I was walking to the restroom I was a little concerned because I could smell the "freshies" and I wondered if anyone else could? Not that I really cared, it would have been hard to identify the source in the crowd, but nonetheless.

When I got to the restroom, it was empty and I was relieved at the fact. It's not like someone couldn't recognize the distinct sound of a diaper - especially those damned adhesive tabs! Anyway, I went into a stall and started changing. I had removed the dirty diaper and was in the cleanup process when a number of people started filtering in. I basically froze.

After several minutes, the crowd dwindled to one guy in the stall next to me. I relaxed and thought I'd better finish cleaning up. I had yet to realize I had made an error - you see I had put a whole box of wipes and the clean diaper in a backpack. The backpack was hanging, rather precariously, on the stall door. When I reached for a wipe, the whole think came crashing to the floor and the diaper quickly hopped out on the floor as if to say "HERE I AM!"

Needless to say, I froze again for a brief moment while I stared at the diaper, wondering if the guy in the stall next to me could see it. Finally, I grabbed it up and stuffed it back into the backpack. I just sat there silently for what seemed like an eternity until the guy left.

When I heard the door close, I started putting on the fresh diaper. I used the wall of the stall to hold it while I fastened the tapes. Now came the riskiest part - DISPOSAL! I carefully folded the diaper up into a tidy package.

By this time I felt like I had regained my composure, so I opened the stall door, dirty diaper in hand. I walked to the trash can about 15 feet away... right in front of the door. My hand lifted over the can and released the "evidence". It no sooner landed in the pile of used paper towels than the door flew open. It was a father, his toddler, and his infant. Ironically, he was coming in to change the baby!

I had just started washing my hands when the door opened to reveal another father with a small child. They took a position in line at the changing table behind the first man! I finished washing my hands as the toddler stared at me. I thought to myself "If you only knew!" I left the restroom satisfied I could change in public if the need arose.

Anyway, I could name a dozen other situations where a diaper could prove extremely useful, but I think we all get the idea. I would probably not wear one on occasions where a trusted restroom was convenient, or while on a "bar-hopping" excursion, etc.

So I guess my questions are;

(1) Are there any other folks out there that wear diapers recreationally (i.e. at home during leisure time) and also in public for "legitimate" (for lack of a better term), reasons? (With the exception of incontinence.)

(2) What do you do about odor (other than dietary adjustments/supplements)?

(3) Does anyone know that you wear them? Did you tell them or did they find out? How did you explain? How did they respond?

That's all for now. I thank you all in advance for your thoughts. I hope you enjoyed the story, too! I was dying to share and it's not one of those things you want to pop off at the dinner table!

Thanks,

Jackson

[Lil_Miss_Ruffles]

Hello Jackson

Thank you for sharing that with us and welcome. Well written too.

(1) Are there any other folks out there that wear diapers recreationally (i.e. at home during leisure time) and also in public for "legitimate" (for lack of a better term), reasons? (With the exception of incontinence.)

Yes; me. Especially great when remodeling and your some place inconvenient, such as in the attic, under the house, on the roof, etc., or the mother-in-law is outside where your working and you can't just duck behind a tree (live in the country).

(2) What do you do about odor (other than dietary adjustments/supplements)?

This generally isn't a problem for me as neither the wife or I care for the smell so I don't poo in them. I wouldn't hesitate to do so though if in a situation where getting to a bathroom is difficult or inconvenient. Besides, like you, some of those public restrooms leave a LOT to be desired.

(3) Does anyone know that you wear them?

[Jackson]

Ruffles,

Thank you for sharing that with us. It must be great to be surrounded by such understanding and caring individuals!

Unfortunately, I fear that level of understanding is all too uncommon, even in this day and age.

Anyone else? Perhaps someone who's experience was a little more turbulent?

[Jackson]

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[Jackson]

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[drynot]

I wear diapers all the time in public. I have been caught once before but that never really became an issue. The person who 'found me out' was a good friend and she kept it to herself. I've never worn JUST a diaper in public. Why add fuel to a fire?

If anyone ever noticed me in diapers, no one has ever mentioned it. Too often people are only interested in themselves. I am not saying that they are ignorant of the world around them. Its just that they cannot be bothered to worry about other people's issues.

[Guest Dill Pickle]

Hello All,

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So I guess my questions are;

(1) Are there any other folks out there that wear diapers recreationally (i.e. at home during leisure time) and also in public for "legitimate" (for lack of a better term), reasons? (With the exception of incontinence.)

(2) What do you do about odor (other than dietary adjustments/supplements)?

(3) Does anyone know that you wear them?

[Jackson]

Dill Pickle,

Thanks for your reply. I appreciate you sharing your experiences. Your pointers will come in handy.

The reason I can't stop the meeting whenever I want is because it is being broadcast live and I am part of the broadcast crew. I don't make the calls on when we break. Only the director can do it.

BTW, I feel bad for you. It sounds like your ex needs serious therapy... or her legs broken. Glad to hear you are no longer in such a relationship.

Thanks very much,

Jackson

[Guest Guest]

The abusive ex WAS in therapy...and prolly still needs it...the GF looks up her public info on the net once in a while, and tells me she is still on psychiatric leave....extremely needy, no sense of boundaries, and very angry describes her well....

The other way to control poop is to make a point of doing it before things get really started...or, if it's occasional enough, give yourself an enema the morning of and eat low-residue/fiber(avoid fruits and veggies, eat meat) the day before....or I just skip a head pill the previous day, and my guts empty themselves just a little ahead of schedule....

Dill Pickle,

Thanks for your reply.

[Guest emz]

must everyone wear diapers?

[abdljoey]

must everyone wear diapers?

Only those who post things on the dailyDIAPERS!!! website and don't even register.

In addition, those who...

Are incontinent

Find them convenient as stated in top of thread

Find them an aid to security and comfort feelings

Find them sexually stimulating

Find them fun

Find them part of the baby/toddler "thing"

Find them part of the sissy "thing"

Find them daring, exciting

In short...

Babies, kids, teens, adults of any age

Now how about YOU??

Hugs, Joey

[Jackson]

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