[Stockings/tights/pantyhose]

9 hours ago, dressupDV said:

Yes!  Me too!  It started with panties and leggings.  I would roller skate to porn shops in NYC where they have "buddy booths" with a shared "modesty window." If both booth occupants allowed, the modesty screen would go up.  I was already super hard from watching porn, but to have a real human to show off how excited I was in my panties and then to cum in my hand and show them   I would wake up horny every day and do that first thing!!!

How very, very exciting! I would of loved being able to do the same thing!!

[Diapered & Wet in Cornwall, ON]

Tis such a shame that your are in the UK while i am in Cornwall, Canada...............?

[Bedwetting/accident chart]

On 9/27/2020 at 4:21 PM, rubbersheetmike said:

Me too. And I still do it today just like I still pee the bed.

Any form of wetting is always pleasurable 

[anyone ever pee the bed]

10 hours ago, foreverdl said:

I wish I would have been that smart when I was around 10-11 yrs old, I would have loved to woke up wet, then and now, I do wet like crazy now some nights and some nights I barely wet at all, I wake up and wet now as long as I am awake I may as well wet my diaper. so I can enjoy being wet and warm. I wouldn't mind diapered or not waking up wet is wet. 

To me that is the most important part, waking up all warm and wet with or without a diaper is pure heaven for me

[Cage]

6 hours ago, Transfusionelle said:

Can I just ask why you would want to alter or change the size of your penis first ? I am a sissy too and I love my diapers, and have worn a cage for fun with my wife, but never to hurt myself or even think of altering my penis. I refuse to go through hormones or anything that will affect my penis. Breast aumentation I did but only for appearance. I'm sorry if it sounds wrong, but I would never do anything that would endanger my penis.

Wearing a chastity cage does not endanger ones penis/clitty penis at all. Provided one adheres to proper hygiene necessities everyday and inspection. With that said, cages do tend to keep your clitty penis on the small side with very little room for "expansion", unless with permission. I have noticed over the past year, that my own clitty penis has retreated more and more, of which is a pure astounding sensation of excitement/arousal...........especially during self playtime

[If you could have no control of your bladder]

4 hours ago, Always_Diapered said:

Personally even though I desire incontinence and do go through spells of binging/untraining where at the time I would want nothing more than incontinence and would immediately take the pill I know I have purge times too where I may regret that decision.

I think the fact it takes such determination and more importantly time to truly untrain is a very good thing because when you do get there you can be sure its right for you.

I quite agree.............the road can be long and fraught, but the reward is what matters

[Are diapers a sexual turnon for anybody?]

Even having just turned 69, I find wearing diapers an amazing turn on. Even seeing a boi playmate in a diaper is so incredibly arousing

[Diapered Camel Toe]

Such an adorable and sexy look. Once in a while I end up with a diapered camel toe which is an immense turn on for me

[Cage]

I am caged 24/7 with no harmful effects whatsoever. I shower everyday with my cage one and once a week I remove it just to do a quick check on things. 

[Bras for cross dressers/sissies]

On 7/21/2019 at 8:57 AM, Kaede said:

As long as you have the band size then most stores should had a large enough size, i wear a 42" and most places i go can go up to 44". If your wearing breastforms avoid plunge and push up bras, other than that most work.

So very true.........there is quite array of 42C bras out there for me. In fact, I love the ones that HommeMystere sells.

[How Did You Become A Little Girl?]

Even as young as 8 I knew that I was different inside, that I related more to girl things than boy things. It was around the same age that when we went for family visits I would sneak into my cousins bedroom, undress, then put on one of her cute panties and undershirt and admire myself in the mirror. She was a year older than me, so her underthings fitted me fairly well. I even wore her nighties and pajamas as well. Even being that young, I knew that I wanted to be a girl, not a boy, and that started my road in become a femboi/sissyboi.

[Diapers and tights question]

I very much love wearing tights/pantyhose over my diapers. Not only does it make me feel quite feminine and sissy, but they also make "self playtime" all that much better because "things" are more hidden and less accessible....giggle

[An Idea on Expedited Untraining Towards Diaper Dependancy]

12 hours ago, DiaperboyEddie12 said:

Just curious "OPEN"?  What you mean by that?

I am going to assume that he means not flexing your pee muscle to squeeze out the last of your pee. The reason I am assuming that is that is what I am doing after wetting, though it is not easy to refrain from flexing that muscle.........as I said, I am just assuming that is what DiaperboyEddie is referring to

[Drinking wee]

With the exception of my morning pee, I will enjoy a drink or two during the day. There are times I will mix it with my coffee, and have even added some to my cereal bowl. I absolutely love to press my soaked soggy diaper against my face to inhale the lovely scent of my pee, lick and suck at the same time. And with the right boi play date, I am more than willing to be a pee toilet for him

[Stockings/tights/pantyhose]

I very much enjoy wearing stockings/pantyhose/tights under my regular and boring boy clothes. And such a wonderful feeling to wet myself while wearing them as well

[Has Anyone Here Actually Succeeded at Making Themselves IC?]

8 hours ago, DaveeBEd said:

Are you happy with the urge incontinence? IF not, wearing diapers isn't going to help. You will need to focus on holding it in. If however you do want to become IC then you need to let go at the slightest hint of that urge, then it will happen more often and be the start of the path to diaper dependence.

Which is exactly what I am attempting to do..........at the sign of even the faintest hint that there is an urge coming on, then I go into relax mode and let it happen without any pushing, only flexing tummy muscles against the bladder area. 

[Has Anyone Here Actually Succeeded at Making Themselves IC?]

7 hours ago, DaveeBEd said:

Strangely I don't actually mind the clean-up too much. As a sub I crave humiliation and its pretty humiliating having to clean yourself after pooping when its smeared all over your backside especially as it takes time and now I have virtually no bladder control by the time I'm fully cleaned and covered in barrier cream I'm dribbling before I can get the clean diaper on. I also wear a cock cage these days with the aim of shrinking my penis and hopefully losing the ability to get an erection. After 6 months of wearing most of the time it is now hard for me to maintain an erection to the state where I don't think I'd be able to achieve penetration. What I hope eventually is that when I have an orgasm it will just be a slow release of semen from my flacid penis. Also cleaning yourself when wearing  a cock cage increases the time it takes to get clean!

What is your aim with the cock cage? 

I take it that you have had no issues with poopies while caged, with the exception of a much longer clean up time. Which I find encouraging as I really should seriously use my diapers/pullups fully as they are intended to be used. And I do know that it would greatly assist and speed up my goal of becoming diaper dependent. I guess I just have to get over the "clean up mentality issue" I seem to have?As for my collection of cages, I find that wearing one is rather stimulating in a teasing way, and I do love how I am denied any form of an actual erection other than a nice titillating sensation of swelling within a trapped cage. This adds a deepening sense of embarrassment and shame over the somewhat ED issue that I have. And I must admit that I quite enjoy how masturbating while caged can lead to a ruined orgasm due to total failure and or just simply lots of dribbling semen. I only wear stubby cages as I find it an immense turn on to see my penis looking small and trapped. I still have yet to receive my one cage that is no more than a 1 inch penis bump which would really trap me. Hopefully all that made sense....lol lol

[Has Anyone Here Actually Succeeded at Making Themselves IC?]

1 hour ago, DaveeBEd said:

Once I accepted that becoming urinary IC was going to be easier to achieve by becoming bowel IC as well my progress improved drastically. If you always have soft poo its far easier to become dually IC, if that's what you want, but its not for everyone!

Very good point actually, as it does make sense that becoming diaper dependent would be easier if a person became dual dependent. For me, the clean up is an issue as it really is not pleasant at the best of times, and also, I happen to wear a chastity cage as part of my diaper pleasure. But, I am still thinking about the poopie end of matters.....lol lol

[Diapers and Girdles]

I found some lovely pantie tummy shapers and the like on Amazon. Lots of nice styles and looks, and I have a small assortment arriving tomorrow (31st). Quite looking forward to trying them out as they will blend in with my diapers sissy lifestyle.

[Has Anyone Here Actually Succeeded at Making Themselves IC?]

To help myself attain diaper pee dependency I know only wear pullups or diapers to help my mind set. At the very very sign of a "pee alert" I immediately go into relaxed mode to assist the escape of nice warm pee into my diaper/pullup. I have found that to assist that pee escape is that I will sit on the potty but with diaper/pullup on as it tends to help mentally to wet easier. However, once things become more relaxed and I can freely wet while at my computer, then I will stop sitting on the potty as an aid to get the flow going (well, except for pee play time). Because I seem to have developed bowel issues which has caused very very loose poopies, I have had a number of escapes as I work on training my pee sphincter to be relaxed at all times. Which has caused me to wonder if I desire to be diaper dependent for both escapes. 

[Feeling of messing more.]

As stated earlier, losing control on wetting does tend to weaken control on poopies to some degree. But it is also true that if you work to maintain poopie control, it does slow down the process of losing wetting control. As I train myself to keep my wetting sphincter as relaxed as possible at all times, I have at times noticed the pending escape in the poopie department. And I am still uncertain if I want to have both forms of diaper dependency. It is a dilemma for certain

[An Idea on Expedited Untraining Towards Diaper Dependancy]

8 hours ago, DaveeBEd said:

Its only quite recently that I've begun waking up in the night or when I get up in the morning and I'm consistently wet. Probably 5 times per week now and that's after 2 years and I think the nights where I'm dry now its because I haven't drunk quite enough water before bed. If I do that every night I don't believe I'd ever have a dry night again.I've also had the occasional night where some poo has leakedinto my diaper without it waking me which is still a real thrill.

Delighted to hear that you are recently waking up wet more frequently. And yes, drinking enough water before bed time certainly helps you to wet more often during the night. 

[Anyone Else Like To Drink While Diapered?]

32 minutes ago, DLTGirl said:

I love a Friday or Saturday with a crate of lager and a few nappies to fill. It is a lovely feeling when I can enjoy that bulging warm sensation. 

It truly is such a wonderful feeling as that soaking wet bulge grows bigger and bigger............so very difficult not to touch and play....giggles

[An Idea on Expedited Untraining Towards Diaper Dependancy]

6 hours ago, DaveeBEd said:

Yes, when you dribble after showering before you can get yourself proper;y diapered again is a sure sign that you've lost control. I still remember getting a real thrill the first time that happened and being so disappointed when it didn't happen again for a few more days. Now its a real rush to get myself dried and covered before I dribble as it happens with every single change.

Such a thrilling moment that must be for you. Eventually I will get there myself but right now I am totally pleased when I wake up in the morning and find that I had wetted in my diaper, and leaked, without having woken up. 

[An Idea on Expedited Untraining Towards Diaper Dependancy]

The way I look at it is, the "12 Month Process" is to be looked upon as the solid base for becoming diaper dependent. But like all processes, there are always lots of tweaking and adjusting to suit everyone's needs. Hence the reason why everyone here has their own take on how to handle their own personal version of becoming diaper dependent. In my case because I have wasted so much time in the past few years doing the binge on/off diaper thing, I finally realized how stupid I was and in the past few months have concentrated in my goal of becoming diaper dependent (definitely pee, but still very uncertain about poopies). With that in mind and with some reasonable gains I have decided to seize upon an idea that was already mentioned here and started letting myself wet immediate (or close to it) the moment I feel that first pee notice. And while I totally wish to avoid the potty for any pee activity (except playtime) I have taken to sitting on the potty with my pullup on, totally relaxing myself and as soon as I feel the flow begin I mentally tell myself that this is what I want, this is my goal, I want to be diaper dependent at all times (poopies still in question). In this way, I feel that in a short period of time that I will be able to wet the moment I feel that first pee notice no matter where I am and what I am doing because I think that my bladder will have shrunken decently with more shrinkage on the way. 

As they say, different strokes for different folks, so long as we reach the goal of our desire.