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Thanks for the feedback, I went ahead and tried these. My weight/height was in the medium range but that was quite snug, especially in the legs as I have thicker thighs than average -- I've run into this before. Must be all the biking. The leg holes weren't the problem but the interior gussets were quite tight in the groin. So also ordered the large which fit my legs better, but the waist is a bit on the loose side. This is a common problem I've run into with some other products -- would be nice if there were a way, other than a safety pin, to cinch up the elastic waistband a bit. Might try to devise a strip of fabric to cinch it up using snap attachments to waistband. The liners were very soft and comfortable. I tried using the contoured stuffer with a gauze diaper and plastic pants and that worked well. Have yet to really test the limits on absorbency in the TA briefs.

Curious about these. What is the waterproof material with these? Is it vinyl or PUL or ?? Have had issues with other products with the PVC becoming brittle over time. Have been able to delay that by being careful with washing and use of creams, but still happens. It is mostly happening near leg holes, so these having fabric border there will help, though it obviously introduces some risk of bleed through wetness. Any thoughts/experience with this effect in the protective brief version of this product?

Don't know what your issue is but here is a hip surgery alternative to hip replacement called hip resurfacing that is designed for young males (ages ~20-55). Look into it. It got some bad press due to a poor design in a popular brand (Depuy) but there are other brands that are doing just fine, particularly in young males. See for example http://www.surfacehippygroup.org Good luck in whatever you have done...

Where is your incision going to be? Have they told you? My first concern would be keeping that site clean and dry. In the hospital they will likely have you on a catheter during the first hours after surgery. For many surgeries, including hip replacement, they want the patient to be up and moving around (on a walker at first) -- helps prevent DVT issues. Then at some point they expect/want you to walk to the toilet and the cath will come out. If you tell them you are incontinent they may set up something like a cath so that the wound is kept clean and dry. There are methods to cover the wound with a waterproof bandage but I don't think that is standard procedure. If a diaper is involved they may show you how to do it yourself safely and just hand you the materials.

I don't post much here, but I feel compelled to post to agree with Mr Otter. I think as much as some women may be "turned off" by the idea, I know for certain women (men also, of course) don't like at all to be misled or lied-to. It will blow all trust in you if you continue to have the topic brought up, but don't tell her; also now she knows you're keeping "something" from her. Can't be good for the relationship. You can reassure her that you are not wanting to pee on her, she doesn't have to touch wet things, herself, etc. To be complete, I'll share my story about this, I waited quite awhile to tell my current wife, but I definitely did want to tell her before getting serious -- toward thinking about marriage. We didn't talk much about sex, but once the topic of fetishes did finally come up, it was very difficult, but I told her. In my case she was very understanding about it, and together we talked about how this may have come about (not sure, myself, really). She has a degree in psych and is a social worker so it was sort of interest to her as a case study, maybe. Today, some 20 years later, she doesn't really participate; she's quite vanilla about sex. I am OK with that, and we seem to have a healthy sex relationship. In my case the DL is more about how it feels to me, and I generally try to be discreet about it when I do have desires, wear around her, or do related laundry and such -- mainly I don't want her to feel I am choosing that over being with her.