boy ricky

Wowser, That was well written and gets to the essence of many AB's core and as you so beautifully have pointed out with respect to your needed transition. No one knows us unless we can be who we are. We all know you a little better today and I am heartened by your post. hugs boy ricky

I love your outlook, lets hope others can see it this way as well. thanks for the contribution to the discussion

I am incontinent by choice. It is reversible as i have managed to go a day with out and managed. I expect there would a period of time where i would have accidents! Its just a matter of paying attention. I love being this way, it makes being a "daddy's boy" much easier emotionally and in reality.

The best thing is to continue hiding them... or to just come out. Tell her you like diapers and send her to the web for info. don't try anything silly. If you were 30 or 40 the medical idea might work, but 18, no chance as [parents are still very protective of you and will not let you deal with a medical issue on your own. You will be off to the doctor and a shrink faster than you can change out of that diaper. be straight up or keep it a big secret. good luck, hope it all works out for you.

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My observations of Ab/dl folks suggest there is no difference between us and them when it comes to "cheating". I make no judgment here with the following, just an observation... I have met with many ab's that have not shared their fetish/ab side with their spouse, yet wanted to play with me and in some cases did play with me.

Im here to say to heck with stuff. I will continue to be affectionate though not to the point you need to say "get a room"

Those goodnite boxers are pretty awful. I am wearing a regular goodnite under a bambino. feels great and looks awesome!

We are also using cloth because we love them. The advantage of being cheaper is a huge plus. We get pull-ups at a discount store to use under the cloth to catch the messy stuff. We also get goodnites and underjams when on sale which i wear at home sometimes.

welcome to the forum. good luck in finding a Mommy or Daddy. Be patient and one will show up. hugs ricky

hey good luck to finding your "girl". This is a good place to start that search. As to diapers and the cost, you might try cloth diapers. If you can not afford to buy them, get yourself some plastic pants and some diaper pins (dollar store for a buck or two) and use a thick towel or a couple of towels. here is a link that shows how to use a towel for a diaper. We use towels sometimes when we run out of cloth because we didn't do the laundry yet! have fun

That is great. Let us know how it goes for sure. I am happy for you.

People that display affection in public is way okay for me. When you get into heavy petting that might not be appropriate in some public places. I do stand up though when people suggest that gays should abstain from kissing, hugging or showing their love or interest in the person(s) they are with. That continues to play into the straight jacket we have been shaking off. Let me add that I am not saying people have to come out of a closet. I am saying that as long as its okay and considered cute for straight couples to go gaga over each other, its way okay for queer couples to do the same.

That sounds like the worst day ever! Daddy and me stopped at our farm when we were in Ottawa. We had 2 feet of snow to get through as well as a big snow drift at the gate! I am happy i wasn't sick like you. You are one tough cookie! hope you are better soon.

Me too. If its me changing me its very quick especially if i am out and about. You can pull diaper off, use tissue to push yucky stuff into the toilet, wipe your bum, flush and then use a baby wipe to clean you front and back, put a clean diaper on, put wipe with dirty diaper and dispose of in garbage or in a plastic bag and take it with you! ps if its Daddy changing me its much longer cause he talks lots!!!!

I would be interested in taking part in this.

Hey I know what a Caniac is! Im a big hockey fane and have been too several games at the RBC center. We live in Toronto mostly but spend lots of time in the RDU region. We have a house there. maybe we can connect when down your way!

hope you find some folks. I was there and never met anyone in Kelowna!

Hi have you found a Daddy yet. There was a young Daddy at the Munch here in Toronto looking for a girl!

Hi The Toronto munch is held the 3rd Wednesday of every month. They are at the Groundhog pub located at Bloor and Sherbourne. See notice below... There are so many Ageplayers, AB's and DL's in Toronto and surrounding areas that it only makes sense to meet up and connect with others! :-) Toronto AgePlay Google Group: groups.google.com/group/TorontoABDLAgePlayGroup Toronto Area AB/DL/AgePlay Munch website: orcinus.dynip.com/TAG WHEN: The munches take place every 3rd Saturday of each month. The next munch date is: February 21st TIME: Munches take place at 6:00pm until whenever. WHERE: The Groundhog Pub, located at 401 Bloor Street East, right near Sherbourne subway station. WEBSITE: www.groundhogpub.com DIRECTIONS: The best way to Groundhog Pub would be to take the subway to Sherbourne subway station on the Bloor-Danforth line, and walk from there. If you need public transit information, check out www.ttc.ca, www.gotransit.ca, or www.viarail.ca. For those who are driving, have a look at Google Maps: maps.google.ca/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=groundhog+pub,+toronto,+ontario&sll=49.891235,-97.15369&sspn=42.400757,89.296875&ie=UTF8&ll=43.672217,-79.377508&spn=0.011547,0.021801&z=16&iwloc=A If you need specific directions from a particular location, please email me: orca.123@gmail.com PARKING: Metered street parking is available along Bloor and surrounding streets. There is a large "Green P" parking garage near the corner of Yonge St. and Charles Street East: www.greenp.com/tpa/parkinglocator/CarParks/Downtown%20Fringe/1/1.jsp HOW TO FIND US: The munch organizers will have a sign that will have "TAG Munch" printed on it. This sign will be placed on the table where we are located. The munch organizers will generally be there a few minutes early to request a group of tables be set aside as seating is on a first-come, first-served basis. That being said, it is important to be at the restaurant as close to 6:00pm as possible to ensure that the group is seated together. Those who come later might not be seated at the group table, depending on how busy the restaurant is. (You might be able to request a table near ours as an alternative.) IMPORTANT NOTE: This is a *public place* so due discretion is warranted. (i.e. don't come wearing obvious diapers, bondage gear, etc. and don't make a scene. The munches are NOT a pickup event and are NON-SEXUAL in nature. This goes for the munch itself and anywhere the group may go afterwards. (It's not a night for "getting some".) :-) See you there! CONTACT INFO: Have more questions? Feel free to email me: orca.123@gmail.com

Hey, do you know where the one in Canada is? The Montreal Nursery closed unfortunately.

he should have messed in the diaper. I bet they would have stopped looking then!

Messing in a cloth diaper can be hard to clean up. Just hold your nose and push it with a paper towel or wipe into the "big boy" toilet and then flush. Run the shower and rinse out the diaper and then either throw it into the washer or diaper pail. It only takes a few minutes.

Daddy and me are lucky. he teaches at a University so he has a recession proof job. We use cloth diapers lots cause we like them, but we could use cloth more often since we can wash and dry them! Today we found some pull-ups called "pajama pants" for kids. They are the same size as goodnites and i got 100 for $35.00

I agree. Nothing like a messy diaper! The smell is okay cause as someone said we don't mind our own brand!