The medical forum is the "inside" and we are on the "outside".
The Desire Forum may be a door, but I don't think it deserves to be a sub-forum of the Medical Forum.
I think it would like if the whole thing were renamed the General Incontinence Forum, with sub-forums within it for medical, bedwetter, and desire.
But from the perspective of the "inside", we are nothing more than incontinence wannabes. I don't think we should be told not to come inside.