[Hiding DL from partner]

You are who you are, and that's not likely to change a lot. But your partner deserves to know who you are, and life is a whole lot easier when you can be completely honest with someone.

My partner used to be somewhat into the DL part of me, but was traumatized by a family member who went through some serious health problems, which included incontinence. We've learned to use language that changes it to something they accept: it's not a diaper, it's a pull-up. And I am OK with them just knowing that I am wearing one, but understanding that seeing it or feeling it would be upsetting. Maybe in a couple years they will become comfortable with using the word "diaper" again. Or maybe not. 

Short version, being honest doesn't always mean agreeing about something. But to me, life is much easier when I am honest about who I am and what I like. Sometimes my partner will hear something and go "ooh!". Other times, they might go "eww". I don't force them to be something they are not - even if it's something that will likely change - but being open about who I am makes life so much simpler.

[Long-time DL, exploring Little]

Hi all, really nice to find such an active and welcoming community for a topic that I've had (ok, still having) some trouble getting comfortable with.

I have always been a kinkster, mostly bondage but always curious to try new things. Had never even thought about diapers until I found myself being put in one while with a bondage partner. I was completely shocked by how much it turned me on. I had never considered myself an AB, but lately, I find that just relaxing in a diaper, watching something comforting and reassuring on TV, and having a stuffed animal I've always loved with me helps a lot with stress and anxiety.

I have a good sense of humor and try not to take myself too seriously, and I enjoy reading both real-life and fictional stories.

I live in Texas, have had a lot of birthdays, but I'm getting comfortable with the idea that my physical age isn't the same as the age I feel some days, and it's okay to explore that.

Thanks for being here

[Self bondage ideas to share and start some discussion]

On 2/18/2019 at 11:54 PM, Cruiser 03 said:

For the average person using 2 X generic bisacodyl suppositories it will produce intense cramps and cause an almost purgative like effect,with multiple bowel movements , if you wish to prolong the wonder what's going on you can candy coat the suppositories (If you melt down a peppermint or mint type of candy that will be mildly irritating and desensitized so when the candy does dissolve and allows the bisacodyl to disperse it can potentially overtake you suddenly causing a near instant diaper fill on the first cramps you feel , there is also a second type of bisacodyl called "Magic bullets" available on Amazon that are favored among the SCI crowd , they are not formulated with oil as the dispersal agent , they are water soluble so they are not dependant on your body heating the oil to liquefy it , thus they work faster sometimes in five minutes ,if you mix them up and candy coat them never truly knowing what you have used ,it's Russian roulette with cramps and evacuations , if you had one of each the "magic" would produce a profound cramping state in the near term until the traditional slow one dispersed and kicked it into over drive open a box of 100 of each kind put them in a bag and shake ,grab two candy coat and do them all , you will have no idea what the little bundle of joy you inserted was it could be two slow ,it could be two fast , it could be one of each and the candy coating needs to dissolve between 20 minutes and 3 hours before it sets whatever inside free,diaper up strap down and let the games begin ,not knowing what kind you used other than 2 suppositories ,can be intresting not knowing if the initial cramps are going to be prolonged or wether you are riding them out only to have them intensify , the thing to remember about bisacodyl is the longer it is retained the more it's going to stimulate your rectum , the more your going to cramp until you evacuate it , it's up to you are you going to let it win or are you going to play hard to get ,where you ride out the cramps until your exhausted and can't stop what's coming and the next set of cramps deposits the mother lode and you fall asleep .

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That is wonderfully devious. I'm copying this one to my notepad for my "things to do with a diaper bondage buddy" game list.