I have an ex wife that accepted my incontinence and even joined me occasionally. A couple years now since my divorce I have an awesome girlfriend whom I recently told about my incontinence. We took things very slow and I was able to hide it from her for a while. My point is that people aren't all judgmental or snickering. I love my diapers too. I'd never dreamed of taking them off. As I just told my girlfriend she thinks she can research and get help but she still sighs when I pulled her tight so it will all be ok. Get out there and take a shot.