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Brudda Voodu

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  1. 2 hours ago, willnotwill said:

    I'll give you that.   Very few of the "God's gift to the 'proper' ABDL" pronouncements there.

     

    Plus the very best photo sets on there are from couples involved in the lifestyle and looking happy and not staged.  I don't mind the tumblr blogs, but a lot of them are people REALLY trying to sell themselves for either pornography (via patreon) or attention.  I like to see healthy and happy couples enjoying this lifestyle, it makes me feel pretty good about my lifestyle too.  I always come back to Daily Diapers, but I really find a lot of angry and alone people here and commonly they are biased one way or another.

     

  2. I think the author got a little side tracked, but I'm pretty sure what he is trying to convey is that even God would have to experience humility and frailty, once in the form of a human.  Humility and shame are considered by most Theologians,  to be completely human traits. The story of Adam and Eve tells how humans first felt these emotions upon being cursed by God for eating the forbidden fruit in Eden.  I'm not sure  I agree with the articles author, or even the story of Adam and Eve, but I think that is what this long winded and side tracked article was trying to get at.

  3. On 12/5/2018 at 10:49 AM, MarkSmith said:

    My obsession with this fetish is without a doubt a direct result of bring abused and humiliated as a child.  I guess that falls under nurturing?

    This is exactly the same situation for me.  Something I used to feel incredible shame and humiliation about as a child, morphed into a "fetish" or "paraphilia"  or "autonepiophilia" as the Dr's call it.

  4. Take it slow and make sure you are honest and open with your communication about what feels good and what doesnt.  You guys will find your place in time and be doing it "your own way" before you know it.  Just make sure to go slow and spend extra time finding things to make your new "mommy" feel really good too.

  5. Hey guys and Gals

    If you know what a Bohab is your probably already a fan of GWAR.  Aside from diapers, GWAR is my other dirty little secret.  Ever since I was about 12 years old I have secretly loved this band.  Now that it's 2018 and I'm in my 30's I'm still embarrassed to openly admit my guilty little pleasure. 

    My mom found my GWAR tapes when I was 12 and freaked out, throwing them in the trash and making sure I was filled with shame.  My mom found my diapers when I was 15 and freaked out, throwing them in the trash and making sure I was filled with shame.  I rooted through two giant garbage cans (in the days before everyone recycled) to get my GWAR tapes back, so I could secretly listen to them when no one was around.  I rooted through the garbage cans again at 15 to retrieve the diapers I had gone to great lengths to obtain.  About 20 years later I am still secretly (for the most part) listening to Oderus Urungus serenade me on Scumdogs of the Universe https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scumdogs_of_the_Universe and I am still secretly (for the most part) wearing diapers.

    No more my friends! No more!  I have recently purchased a GWAR t-shirt and I shall proudly wear it to the grocery store, the dentist, the bank or even to a parent teacher interview.  Just like I had to accept my fate was going to be in diapers, I must also accept and stand tall as a bohab and willing slave to the amazing band of GWAR.

     

     

  6. You will be fine.  Wear a slim diaper with a cloth-like outter cover.  Like a Tena overnight or something.  Wear boxers over it and only diaper up right at bed time.  Turn the shower on to hide the sound of diapering if you are really nervous.  Bag your morning diaper in a plastic grocery bag and either store it in your backpack/bag untill safe disposal or stuff it in the bottom of the bathroom garbage with some tissue over the bag.

    Or don't wear the diaper

    Or tell your mom you have some bed wetting issues and leave it at that.
     

    Or Tell your Mom you have a kinky compulsion to wear diapers 24/7 and you must obey or suffer emotionally.

    Either way dude good luck and don't worry so much.  Its just a diaper, not like you gotta hide your heroin needles or something.

  7. On 8/21/2018 at 3:53 PM, GhostGirl said:

    Yep, and at the end of the day, it is always our fault too... we dressed like we wanted attention, or we were giving out signals, or we were where we shouldn't be, or why were we at a club if we did not want to get hit on? 

    A friend I knew from when I lived in Cali met up with me recently and he noticed I had a pepper spray thing on my keys, and I had another in my purse. I also told him there is one in my glovebox in my car. He asked me why, and my response was, "Because I have used two of the three, that is why." I am glad they don't understand, because no one should have to live like many women live, but I also wish that they understood enough to stop this shit from happening. There was a discussion I was a part of recently where I was asked if I had interest in fetish munches or get togethers and I said no. When I explained why, people got angry at me that I would dare put my safety above participating in their activities, and thought I was accusing them of being creeps. The simple fact is, in the Vanilla world, the creeps abound, once you hit Fetish communities, they get more aggressive and emboldened, and more predatory because there are typically fewer women in those circles, even fewer who are straight (Fetish communities are one of the only ones I have seen where LGBTQ tends to have a higher than average representation in my own experiences) and of the remaining straight ones, a lot are already in monogamous relationships.

    It is the same exact same reason I dramatically reduced my participation in Renaissance Faires. Unless I could drive to my home from the faire sight daily, I don't go anymore. 

    Of course, men are not the only ones who perpetuate this crap. Women, especial rural white women, who do not experience these things routinely tend to jump on the "They asked for it option," as well as women who tend to be home bodies, and do not tend to go to the larger parties, or have been fortunate enough not to depend on public transportation a lot, etc... Then there are women who use this public treatment and twist it into a form of gas-lighting their boyfriends by actively showing how easy it would be for them to find someone else. I want to make it clear that women do contribute, but their contributions are often a result of the fact this shit exists anyways and that they believe if they shame the girls this happens to, it will deflect it from them, or that they can claim moral superiority over girls to deal with their own self-esteem issues which prevents them from saying they don't like some of the attention, etc... 

    It all comes down to toxic masculinity which often times equates a mans ability to sleep with women, or to show their "manliness" by demeaning women, with being a true right man. And it feeds itself, each new act has to be bigger and more manly than the last. This is why you have the incel crap, the boys who shoot up schools because a girl was not nice to them, nor was she mean to them. Or the girls that get beaten by boyfriends because the boyfriend felt she showed him up.

    Sounds like you have it all figured out.

  8. Hi there and welcome.

    It's not likely you would become incontinent from wearing diapers if you did not want to do so.  For the folks that do want incontinence in diapers they have to retrain their bladders and or bowels, and that takes a lot of time and patience.  If you just wear diapers and use your bladder/bowels normally (wait till you get the normal sensation to go because they are full) you will be safe from losing control.

    If you made yourself incontinent you could re-potty train yourself but it depends on how you made yourself incontinent.  If you managed to atrophy your bladder/bowel muscles, (not easy to do) you can re-train but it will take time and patience.  If you became incontinent for some unknown reason you should see a Dr to find out whats wrong and if you can re-train.

    Hope this helps.

  9. I just read that article on a different news web page.  I agree, I liked the advice given to the wife who posted the question.  I feel sorry for the poor guy, I bet he feels pretty awful about himself and his diapers.  Any person who puts up an ultimatum like that, "do what I want or I'll leave" is a shitty person and not worth any time in a relationship.  As much as I despise the wife in this article, for being so self centered and obviously wanting the relationship to be only about her needs. I think the husband should have had the courage to walk away from her once she proposed that ultimatum.   

  10. On 4/30/2018 at 4:39 AM, Spokane Girl said:

    It seems like every ABDL company is suing out there. Why can't they leave each other alone? This is going to ruin the market and there won't be any ABDL diapers. 

    I think we should try and move away from the use of AB/DL anyway.  Our actual medical definition is autonepiophilia or Paraphilic infantilism or psychosexual infantilism or even adult baby syndrome.  AB/DL just caught on through internet culture and any medical professionals I have encountered don't  think of it like we do.  The only people who associate a certain lifestyle or behavior with the acronym AB/DL are people like us.  I think if you are going to be succesfull in the adult diaper business you would be shooting yourself in the foot to only cater to our very minor branch of the customer bubble.  Point being, if you don't use the AB/DL acronym you will avoid silly legal hardships and keep your customer potential wider.  I betcha Grandma would actually consider those cute pink diapers if she didn't feel like a kinkster buying them.

  11. When I have to change in a public stall I also do it standing.I position my diaper with both hands behind my back.  When I have my diaper in position, I lean my back into the wall, pinning the diaper in place.  Then reach between my legs and pull the front of my diaper up, tape and done.  I have only done this in a nice and clean public washroom, one at my old place of work, so I would be a little squeemish with touching the walls in a public bathroom.

  12. 1 hour ago, John64 said:

     

    I always say when people talk about wearing both chastity devices and diapers that they have to check the lock well not to end up with a lock filled with rust as I guess most wearers wish to be able to get out of the cage sometime in the future.

    or at least have a good pair of bolt cutters in their toolbox.

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