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BriGuy
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Mmmmm vodka... Love gettin tipsy diapered. Even better waking up wet thinking... When did THAT happen!?
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took the plunge and bought a case. Hope I like em! If not I'll have some un opened bags of size large for sale soon! hah
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Thanks for that tip! I think I'm gonna give them a whirl.
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Hehe I'm good Ducky! I don't need to take any of your stash. I've learned that good things come to those who wait. :-p
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Nah... We've been spendig money on other things. Just paid off my final credit card.
Damnit Zpeed! Not fair! *crys*
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I wish I had a stash! I have one diaper left! It's about to get real... Un padded in my life soon.... Wah
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I will say though that I am a little bit hesitant as the last time I tried the dry247's they didn't fit right on me.
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Looks like I'll be trying a sample to see what I think..
Size small???? LoL I ain't no small boy sir!
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I do agree they have quite a product. Good to hear that they are making sure it stays that way!
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Ah! That gives some insight into the situation. Just seemed like they've been outta stock for quite some time. I've developed an affinity for their all white diapers. Remind me of the pampers I wore in the 80's. They really take me back.
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So, is the company going under? Are they gonna have more stock soon?
I need to purchase a few cases and my favorite diapee isn't available. Not sure what to do.
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Yes! I am a leather diaper man! Haha. I love restraining AB's and watch the lm struggle in their restraints and listen to the crinkle of their hopeless situation.
I've been in and out of the BDSM scene since I was 18 and blue the lines often with leather, S&m and diapers.
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Im sorry I don't know what you guys are talking about, all I am saying is in my opinion its better to be honest and risk them leaving to be your self around that person than to not risk them leaving and keep it hidden between yourself. If you kept things to yourself you would be more likely to watch videos of diaper stuff to satisfy your fantasies. Which that is basically cheating in a way. That's just my opinion, its ok if you disagree.
I agree. It will eventually come out. And then your spouse will wonder what else you've been keeping from him/her.
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You throw around ideas like children throw snowballs.
As I said, the results of "opening up" is a crapshoot, with which, from what I have seen here, no informed person would disagree, therefore unpredictable and could, with equal probability be perfect acceptance, total rejection, anywhere in between or something which I could not even imagine
You are talking about morality, I am talking about psychology. We can even agree on the morality as we look upon it from afar. But throwing around moral cliches does not tell you 1) If you can get the job done and 2) If you can, how. The difference here is you reciting Newton's Third Law, of which I am already aware,and me trying to build the rocket. The Third Law tells me nothing about how to select liquid or solid fule. If liquid, how to build the fuel pumps, the navigation computer or crew accommodations Did I not say "The Devil is in the details" and "there are more thing in Heaven and Earth than...[are dreamed of in all your philosophies Horatio]"
Trying to find some analog between diaper wearing and national security is talking about peaches and hot dogs, both of which I love but they are totally different. However at the individual and emotional level that may be the case. The closetted diaperist has grown to feel that if it gets out, he has been totally violated. Before you can have a nation, or any group, you need to have the individuals that make up that group, so the individual, existentially and therefore in fact, precedes and therefore outweighs the group. Put another way, the group is made up of individuals and can only be so. The individual is not made up of groups. Besides which, if a person is violated, does it make a difference if it was by the Crips or Bloods or by a Russian, Chinese or the like? The perspective of the individual is different from the group perspective. Besides which I made the statement that spies regularly conceal things from, and even lie, to their spouses. The reasons why do not eliminte the fact that it is done and they seem to be all right.
The issue of "lying to whomever you please" is bogus. let me ask you this. If you were confronted by a person who asked you where your family is and made it clear that if you told them, he would kill and eat them: Would you tell him their location or would you "lie" trhough your teeth? (This has already been settled in Ethics)
Mow we are talking about a voluntary relationship but I had to note that you are speaking in terms of generalities here without considering the specifics The closetted diaperist may intend to tell the other at a time of his choosing so this may be intended as a temporary thing and, like so many things, today becomes tomorrow which becomes next week, next month and next year and next... Or the person may wish to open up but no know how. Do not forget, opening up would violate his decade long modus operandi which he knows how to do and has done by habit and the opposite of which he is unaccostomed to, unskilled at and downright scared of. In Ethics, those go into the criteria for a moral judgement. So what appears to be the absolutely moral course, for the purposes of this discussion, is not available so the pontification does no good. Is it not said to "judge a person as himsself" and "Before you judge a person, walk a mile in his moccasins". That does not mean that you do not make judgements, but that you do not make ignorant judgements. Much of Dthics (which is the source of morality) is about what can be done when the "absolutely moral course" is not available
Rahter than create straw men ("some people think it's all right to lie to whoever they please" was never even broached or implied here. If you inferred it, you are in error) or recite generalities, to which we may both agree, What about grasping the full situation and getting to the "how to" which will, I am sure, vary widely amoung individuals and may include not marrying at all. Have I not myself told persons that if they outright lie or try to "trick" their partner (presuming they do it knowingly, deliberately and willfully) they are wrong and open themselves up to consequences that they will not like? Also what about the spouse who is (or seems) accepting and then does a 180; has that not been discussed here? What about the "baggage' that I mentioned earlier? One of my solutions was having it "brokered" by a competent thrid party who understands that baggage
Just so you know, my formal training in Ethics was at the feet of the Dominicans and not the Jesuits
I just cannot seem to follow you leaps in logic... I just don't understand your connection between Mafia Dons, Spy's, death, diapers and sharing your authentic self with your spouse.
What I do understand is that I see a lot of lonely ABDLS who are petrified about being who they are, and even more frozen in fear to share this intimate side of themselves.
As is the case with the OP, he found acceptance. Even if for now. Sure people can turn a 180, sure things could go sideways. That's the chance at any relationship.
If we allow the trivial status of our ABDL interests have so much power in our lives that we live in a closet afraid if sharing it with the person who is supposed to love us... What sort of love is that?
What do we teach the younger generations of ABDLs by promoting half truths and secrecy instead of acceptance and pride in ourselves?
I'm sorry... I just cannot and will not promote anyone to keep who they are from their spouse under wraps, nor will I give any consideration to the thought that it's a reasonable option.
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Wow, I never considered my diaper wearing to be close to the level of national security...
Your right, some people feel it's fine to lie to whomever they please.
Still don't make it right!
On the flip side I would think that as a spouse you should be mature enough and responsible enough to not hold out on your significant other.
What does that say about a persons moral compass that he/she can justify omitting truths and or leaving out very important pieces of who he/she is?
In terms of recipes for success, every girl I've dated has changed my diaper! And I've dated more than 3... Even married once, then got married again.
So, I guess I can deduct from my experiences that being open and honest to those I date yields in being able to partake in my lifestyle with them!
What a novel idea....
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My recipe for success is to feel the person out in terms of understanding and openness to new ideas. Generally I broach the topic of alternative lifestyles and Bdsm as it's more mainstream. If the lady I am talking about shuts down that conversation I shut down our dating and move on to another woman.
I did this early in the dating. It allowed me to feel out how open the other persons mind is and how well they deal with different ideas. It also allows me to broach a touchy subject without incriminating what I am into. My number one requirement to dating is that the person I date has an open mind and a willingness to accept things that are different. It's pretty easy to tell early on who is and who isn't. Generally it comes out in the first dinner.
If the person I am potentionally dating is open then I will dive in a little further.
To this day I haven't had too big of a trouble opening up and sharing my side with people.
Granted a few have had bad experiences. What I've witnessed in those situations is the Abdl had been dating someone for quite some time and then laid it all out on the line. Gotta ease into most situations.
If you have to keep a secret from your spouse then maybe that isn't the person you should be with? I mean seriously, if they cannot or will not accept your authentic self what sort of miserable love is that?
I'd rather be alone than with someone I can't share myself in my entirety.
Sorry to de-rail the topic OP. I will never support the ideal some people have on this site that hiding who you are from your spouse is a good thing.
Hiding who you are to your loved one is a travesty and I feel sorry for those who have to stay closeted in their own homes.
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I've learned if you share this side of you with your girlfriend/significant other with a positive spin his/her reception level is higher. After all, it is definitely something that can bring you even closer in the relationship.
Everybody I've shared this side of me with have been supportive.
I also think it's best to get it off your chest early in the relationship that way not too many emotions are built up to create hurt.
Of course learning to ease in to the topic is a bit of an art form I've learned.
Glad to hear things went well for you!
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Congrats. The first person I told I was very nervous too. Although I was only 15 I felt very similar to you. It wasn't until recently I was ok with talking about it. Now its pretty matter of fact in my relationship with my wife.
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Mine is when my wife pats by butt while we cuddle.
Me too. It's the best!!
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When I see you next week I'll kick ya down a couple of bams.
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I've always used mail order. Unfortunately what's stocked on the shelves down here are of terrible quality.
If your taking the 5 back north we should correlate a meet n greet as I now reside in Tacoma Wa.
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It is the old story. She is looking down the aisle, at the altar and the organist is playing the religious music and she starts thinking "aisle...altar...hymn. That is about right"
LOVE IT!!! Haven't giggled like that in a while!
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If you don't clear your pipes every so often your body will do that for you. If it was after you first woke up your morning wood probably dribbled a little love juice into your diaper.
Tingling!
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Woohoo!