Solomon_Wishes

Some really nice advice Sorry I didn't think to say if I was wearing in the day. The answer to that is no because I still live with the parents and they have no idea I wear at all, well I hope they don't anwyay. Also I am my moms carer so im called downstairs alot to help her and answer the door for any deliverys, so I would constantly have to take it off. The way I wet at the moment is I wake up because I need to pee, I pee my diaper and then I go back to sleep, unless its early morning I just get up and clean myself up ready for the day. I really do want to maintain a healthy life style even if diapers will play a fair part of it. I need to find the perfect balence so to speak. I do have a bad habit of not drinking enough water all the time.

Hey everyone After fully accepting myself of being a diaper lover I am begining to wear every night and wet it on most nights/early morning. But as the title says, I am most concearned that I might be making my bladder weaker which isnt really my intention as I still want full control over my bladder when im not wearing and other nights that I choose not to wear. I say this as im finding that I need to pee a little more often in the day time, where as normaly I would do one big pee once or twice a day. I don't mind that to much as when I pee diaper, I don't flood it every single time which normaly ends up in leaking and a bit of mess to clean up. But saying this I would not like to loose all control of my bladder at any point as being a diaper lover is something for my own personal time that helps destress me a lot and takes a fair bit of my depression away, espcialy when you're mind can race and think all negative thoughts at night time, more so if I can't sleep aswell. Im trying to keep everything clean and healthy aswell to keep a good lifestyle so it doesn't take over in anyway. Its not easy still living with the parents but I have a system in which I can store a few dirty diapers and then dispose of them in the bin. I use nappy bags and fabreeze to keep everything smelling nice and wash my private areas everytime I wake up with warm water and a bit of sanex washing gel, so everything is clean and fresh :).

Hey everyone So this has a true story and I want people's opinions so I can try make a decision on what I really want. As for most people who are DL and maybe ab. Me being 100% DL. We all, in our minds at least want to meet that special someone we can be able to share our DL experiences with, in a sexual way or just wearing together in general. But for me I think about it quite a lot and crave that very thing. But... About six months

That's really good advice from all of you, I'm taking it all on board. Thank you. Yea I really don't want this to be to much of a big part of my life, but I'm also happy to be accepting of it. It feels like a part of my life I can relax with and stop worrying about it to much.

Hey everyone Lately I have been over overindulging in wearing my diapers, I feel like I have finally fully acepted myself as diaper lover or at least 90% the way there. I have been wearing everynight as I can't wear in the day time because I still live with my parents and I don't really want them or anyone to know about it.I enjoy wetting and have got use to waking up and wetting and going back to sleep, and then just cleaning and changing in the morning. My only problem is how turned on I get when im wearing and wetting, I can't seem to help myself. I enjoy just wearing and wetting without ending up masterbating although I do like doing it every now and then. I suppose in a sense I want to try desexulize diapers now im more acepting and just wearing them normaly and more regulery. Id like to just to be able to chat to other diaper lovers without sex being the first thing on my mind. I did have a girl friend in the past which I actualy found on DD right here, but for other reasons and being a little freaked out by both being cloest diaper lovers at the time, we went our seperate ways and I think she chose to try ignore being a dl, I guess good luck to her in that sense. Id love to find a partner I could enjoy diapers with and not just focus on sex being the one thing to do with them.

Hey everyone Im currently looking for a bit of advice when masterbating in diapers, im pretty sure a fair percentage of us diaper lovers do it. Back to the point anyways, I have ran into few medical problems lately, when I have been masterbating or after I have been, I think I have been making the tip of my penis gradully more and more sore, causing me to get thrush. But also on top of that, im guessing its a side effect, I have ran into a problem which has happened to me in the past, but I am not a hundred percentent sure if it was masterbating in diapers that caused it this time or last time.

I'm not here to give criticism, but I have struggled with heavy depression & Social anxiety, as well as a mental ocd since I can remember, which with being a dl made me think over various different thoughts of things to do with dl repeatedly.

Thank you for all the good advice guys, I think I will give it time to heal and make sure im extra clean with it. I've not heard of the oatmeal thing before, but I guess its a possibilty for the future.

Hello everybody I was wondering if anyone else has this problem. Being a diaper lover when im wearing helps me relax and destress, but also it being a sexual thing, sometimes we all have our moments where you have your special time should I call it. But after that it makes my tip of my pe**s sore, guessing because the stuff collects in my diaper where it came out, because of this I have to change straight away and it ends my diaper wearing session promtly which kinda sucks . I have been to doctors and he told me it was thrush and gave me a cream called daktacort, which is all good and everything that im treating it. But it still means im left with the problem of not being able to enjoy my special time or enjoy it, because I know its going to come at an abrupt end and leave me with a fair amount of discomfort. So it makes me afraid to even go anywhere near wearing diapers at the moment which makes me fed up because its one of my best ways to destress and relax. So im really looking for any useful advice or tips you can throw this way. Thank you