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    How open are you about ABDL?

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    I'll say 3 1/2. 2 of my ex-boyfriends knew I was into ABDL, as I told each of them while we were dating. I told a few of my ex-friends about it before the friendships ended, I came out to some of my current friends about it, and my mom knows about it by accident. I currently can't remember the last time I told anyone that I like ABDL. It's been at least 3 years. I actually considered coming out to a very close friend about it, just a few months ago. We were in the middle of a text conversation when this happened. However, I stopped myself. My instincts said not to. Moments later, he said that it's "weird as shit" to pretend to be a child. I was glad that I decided against coming out to him. I plan to come out to anybody new for a long, long time. 

    On 7/15/2018 at 2:20 AM, IminWetPampers said:

    I’m not so sure about that (or maybe I’ve just been lucky enough to have open minded friends), because I can’t recall one time that I told any of my friends that I wear diapers that it went badly. Almost all my close friends know that I wear diapers and most of them have seen me wearing my diapers, some have even gotten me diapers as presents. I had friends who were couch surfing for a couple of months and when I got home from work my pants were off and I was wearing diapers openly, no difference in the way they treated me (that was at least 12 years ago and we’re still friends). I also am friends with a couple who insist that I am openly diapered when I go over to their house (her nickname for me is ‘baby Mikey’) and he was the one who told her that I wear diapers and once she knew she had to see me in them. 

    It depends heavily on the person, and the kind of people in their life. I'm very lucky to have some accepting people in my life. But obviously, not everybody has that. 

    Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

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    My parents were divorced when I was a baby, and I've had a single mom since I can remember. I only ever saw my biological father 1-3 times a year. We never knew each other well, and suffice to say, we had a very distant relationship when I was a child and a teenager. At the time of writing this, we aren't in any contact and have not seen each other in person in 4 years. My mom and I have a very difficult, and downright abusive relationship. 

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    Change in Outlook on ABDL

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    On 2/22/2021 at 10:14 AM, LiL Marc said:

    I'am sorry for you
    You should be proud of yourself cause you were strong enough not to fall into a toxic relationship
    I send you love!

     I DID fall into a toxic relationship, though. However, I appreciate the kind words.

    Finding ABDL relationships

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    On 1/8/2021 at 4:54 AM, amorfraldaJR said:

    @cookiemonster23 Your response was so touching and heart felt, you made me cry. You say your mom knows and is accepting but you never talk about it. Have you ever bought it up with her in a conversation and tried to find out why she never has spoken about it ? Maybe you left it at that and it makes you happy. I have 1 DL friend and thats my bf. That is the one thing I learned from both my aunts. Communication is key. Me and my aunts we talk about everything and we are totally honest with each other. I have had anal sex with only one other person when I was in high school, and that was the extent of my experience. Both my aunts are very experienced and spoke to me as a man and gave me the 101 on anal. maybe you havent found the right person to be yourself with yet, but dont give up. I've been a little down for 2 days now really missing my bf and my aunts and uncle have been by my side. I wont get to see my bf for another 3 weeks. I know its gonna be a rough 3 weeks. I am still new to this fetish and I am very open. I would love the pleasure of chatting with you and getting to know you. You sound honest and down to earth and honestly I am very humbled to have a young female respond so passionate and earnest. Thank you for the well wishes and please lets chat. Your Friend Jason.

    You're correct in that communication is important. However, in my situation, it's for the best that my mom and I don't discuss it. My mom isn't like your aunts. She's not a good source of advice, and there's not much trust between us. 

    On 5/3/2020 at 1:50 PM, Cute_Kitten said:

    My ABDL side is very private. Aside from some online ABDL friends, no one knows. It's my private affair, nobody else's business but mine. As an asexual, I don't do romantic relationships. Done them in the past, been completely miserable- I'm much happier being single. ?

    I'm glad you're happy! That's what is most important, right? 

    On 7/3/2020 at 5:55 PM, Autiesaurus said:

    I'm aromantic and asexual as well.  Finding someone who wants to engage in ABDL stuff without turning it sexual is super hard.  I have one long distance friend that I roleplay with, but I have to be careful because he keeps making romantic advances that I have to fight off and make extremely clear boundaries around.

    I've had a similar problem! I'm not aromantic or asexual, but I prefer to keep sex and all things related to it strictly separate from ABDL. For me, ABDL is about receiving the love, comfort, and security that I've lacked from the very beginning. Yet, most people seem to want to sexualize it in one way or another. I hate it. Other people can make it sexual in THEIR personal lives if they so choose, but I don't want that. 

    Finding ABDL relationships

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    My mom knows that I do ABDL. She discovered it by accident when I was a teenager, and was surprisingly accepting about it. However, we never talk about it. I have some friends who know of it, and are comfortable discussing it. I've had ABDL friends before. I never got to meet any of them in person (they were all online). Sadly, I'm also not speaking to any of them anymore, due to a natural loss of contact. I'm glad to still have people in my life who know and are accepting. But sadly, I don't currently have anyone I could do it with in person. I've never done ABDL with anyone in real life, only alone. One day, I hope to change that. 

    On 1/1/2021 at 4:08 PM, amorfraldaJR said:

    I dont even know where to begin. Being gay was already a trauma for me living at home with my father. My father called me every derogatory and belittling name he can muster. He finally threw me out of the house at 13. My aunt quickly stepped in and accepted me to her home with open arms. I admit I was in rotten shape and had the I dont give a f%#k attitude. I never admitted it to anyone but I was so close to just putting a noose around my own neck. I knew my aunt well but at 13 what does any kid know of their aunts sexual preferences. She sat me down every night and we talked for hours on end. She told me of her bisexuality and it really made me feel at ease. She taught me what it is to love with your heart and to be true to myself. She helped me everyday with homework and my studies and really showed me what true love is. She picked me up from school almost everyday, and made sure I was fed and had money in my pocket. I owe her so much. I turned myself around and started getting straight A's in school and made the swimming team. She introduced me to diapers and I am not ashamed to admit that. I was already 15 years old now and a diaper lover with straight A's and 3 swimming titles under my belt. She introduced me to her girlfriend one weekend and I instantly took a liking to Elle. She was gorgeous and really a person I could relate to. I didnt know that Elle was also a diaper lover until a few months later. Being gay and seeing a man that looked so pretty was something so new to me. Moving ahead another 2 years in my life and seeing the love that they shared really put my heart to the test. Can I really love another human as much as them. I was going to several college interviews and started to really come out of my shell and speak with guys and I truly enjoyed it. I met a guy named Johnny at one interview and we really hit it off. He asked me out on a dinner date and my heart was in my throat. I got home and told my aunts and they took me out and got me some clothes to wear. Me and Johnny now going on 13 months together has been something I cant put into words. I know that love now that my aunts share. I introduced Johnny to diapers just as my aunt did for me and he had the same reaction as I did. He is now 6 months a diaper lover and I a 4 year veteran. Many will say I am lucky and I have a life like no other diaper lover. I know that in my heart I am loved and I give all that love back to my aunts and my uncle Phil and to my loving boyfriend. I have diaper lover in my blood and I dont think I could ever go back to the life as a so called normal person. @square_duckI feel for you brother and that is rotten of people to purposely ruin someone elses life for gain. My bf and I read your post and we both cried. I think back to how horrible my own father was to me and the despicable things he called me. I forgive my father, but our relationship will never be close. I know what love is now and what it is to be loved unconditionally and to have a family of diaper lovers. We all shared a beautiful New Years here and I share this with all AB/DL people. We are one, we may not all be the same. but we are here for one purpose. 

    I'm glad you found someone better and more loving to live with, and I'm glad that you found a happy relationship! I wish you and your bf the best! 

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    Change in Outlook on ABDL

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    I have some updates on this situation.

    1. Jeff and I did not end up meeting in early 2020, like we planned. He had some financial troubles, and found that he could no longer afford it. We couldn't make later plans due to COVID. We often talked of meeting up after the quarantine ended, but it never happened.

    2. Jeff and I broke up. To make a long story short, he just became increasingly cold and distant towards me. I tried to talk to him about this on numerous occasions. Each time, he'd say that he was going to do nothing about it. Then, he'd make an empty promise that it'd get better in some unknown point in the future. Of course, it never did. So, I broke it off with him and then cut all contact. There's more to the story, SO much more. There was lying, manipulation, gaslighting, and more. It was a highly abusive relationship. But, that's a story for another time.

    TLDR: This post is rather bittersweet for me now, as Jeff is long gone.

    Recent Anti-Spanking Rants on TV

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    On 12/14/2020 at 1:24 AM, marinus18 said:

    That is lazy parenting because she doesn´t make it clear why you deserve it. Our mom would always explain it exactly. She was an intellectual so believed understanding was key so we had to discipline. Punishment was merely a tool to make sure we would listen. Punishing a child without explanation regardless of if it's physical or not is abusive. Even if she didn't spank and just did things like grounding and chores without explaining why it would still be bad.

    Really? Is that age truly accurate?

     

    I think spankings have gone out of favor because people have more time to raise their kids. One big advantage of spankings is that they are much quicker. You don't have to go into lengthy talks. You can just tell them what they did wrong and spank them and they will accept it. Now however families are smaller and modern tech has drastically cut down on the time needed for household chores. Before children HAD to do their chores as a single mother was simply unable to do it on her own. Now though a single mother can do all the chores of a 3 children household reasonably easily. So making sure they do their chores is no longer essential and she has the time to spend on other discipline methods.

    Also today the understanding of psychology is much greater than it was before so there are many more techniques available that don't include physical force. My mom was really into that and read all kinds of books and had quite elaborate and creative child rearing methods.

     

    Therefore most spankings do not occur because a parent wants to responsibly teach their child discipline and have happy family but because they are too lazy to look into other methods or too selfish to put too much effort into their kids. Or worse of all they spank their children to blow off some steam. I think that's why many kids who are suffering spankings now develop a lot more damage. It's not the spankings themselves but usually the only parents who resort to them also have all kinds of other issues.

    "she doesn't make it clear why you deserve it" Excuse me, what? I DIDN'T deserve it. No child deserves to be hit. 

    Autism Spectrum

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    On 1/31/2020 at 4:42 AM, Pete671 said:

    Great poll, very interesting to see half of us are def or probably on the spectrum, I have a cdx of AS, although even under DSM5, the criteria for dx ASD1 is exactly the same as the criteria for AS, happy to receive PMs from anyone on this subject,,,

    Thank you! I heard that autistic people make up a big part of this community, or at least the diaper aspect, and I wanted to verify that! 

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    Change in Outlook on ABDL

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    As some of you may remember, I asked my last bf to baby me, and he said no. We're broken up now(for unrelated reasons), and I got a new bf. We'll call him Jeff. Jeff told me that he was into littles, but wouldn't want one that played as a baby rather than a child. Because of this, I didn't tell him I was into that until about a month into the relationship. When I came out, Jeff surprised me. He said that he was, in fact, into ABDL. He said he told me he wasn't because he's very picky about who he does it with(he prefers to only do it with people he has a real bond with), and it was easier at the time to just say he wasn't into it. I was shocked, but regardless, I was really happy. Jeff and I are long distance, so he hasn't gotten a chance to baby me in person yet. We'll be meeting early next year, so we'll see how that goes. However, he's done it plenty of times online, and so far, I've loved it. Since this all happened, my outlook on it has changed a lot. In the past, I only went into littlespace to temporarily eliminate the urge to do so. Now, I do it simply because it's fun! I also do it way more often. I didn't think I'd find a daddy so soon. I'm so happy to have not only found one, but to have found a daddy AND a boyfriend in one person!  

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    Experiences Being Outed

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    9 hours ago, horrorfan said:

    I was about eighteen when I told one of my friends. We went to church together and were kind of outcasts since we just weren't into it. Anyway, for unrelated personal reasons I had to move shortly thereafter, but this friend just quit seeing me as he had before, so I never told anyone else. I don't know whether he kept it secret or not, but I guess that's one of the moments I had where I decided that there's other aspects to me than just being an AB.

    It sucks that y'all lost contact, but at least he didn't out you during the friendship. Of all places, church would've been one of the worst places to do it.

    On your 'milestones'

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    As a little, I walk quite a bit, but that's only because I regress alone. Once I get a chance to do it with someone else, I hopefully won't walk unless I absolutely have to. My little side does talk, but not too much. Once I'm out on my own, I'll be sleeping in a crib, and I currently drink from a bottle. My little side has some tendencies towards a child of roughly 3 - 5 years, but those are relatively few. For all intents and purposes, my little side is a baby. I never get older than 1 year. 

    discreet or thin diapers

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    On 4/21/2018 at 7:29 AM, 2sail2 said:

    I bought one all in one diaper years ago and the thing was huge and unwieldly with huge velcro tabs.  Chafing was awful. because the vinyl had small plastic dots on it, probably from the manufacturing process that scratched like 40  grit sand paper.  Are there any thinner ones and you don't feel like you have to waddle around in?

    Try contour diapers from Baby Pants. https://www.baby-pants.com/diapers.php

    New to wearing Cloth Diapers

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    On 5/1/2019 at 9:29 PM, Glennie said:

    in my opinion i say.. run the other direction as quickly as you can.. I hate cloth diapers and plastic pants. the diapers feel like a wet wash rag against your skin and the plastic pants are like a trip to the sweat lodge, but it just in your pants.. So if you enjoy sweaty rashes and cold wet diapers.. go for it.. otherwise.. run like forest gump...

    :baby-waving-bye-bye-smiley-emoticon:

    Whatever types of diapers you used must've been terrible in quality, as they are NOT supposed to feel like that. 

    On 5/1/2019 at 9:24 AM, DLErica said:

    As the title says I'm new to wearing cloth diapers.  How do you wear these in public?  They are so bulky especially with the added plastic pants.  And my plastic pants are huge, hope someone has a recommendation on how to get fitted plastic pants.  I wear plastic diapers for now.  Thanks, appreciate any comments.

    Baby pants has some thinner cloth diapers that might work. Look into their contour diapers. https://www.baby-pants.com/diapers.php

    How to Cloth

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    There's multiple reasons why your cloth diapers could be leaking.

    1. Either the diapers, plastic pants, or both are too loose. Try putting on the diaper tighter, and if that doesn't work, then you need to go a size down with one or both of them.

    2. If you're using fabric softener, or detergent that has, this will coat the fibers and make them less absorbent. This could be the culprit. If you're not, it may be the detergent. Detergent with certain ingredients can coat the fibers, like fabric softener, and make them repel liquids instead of absorbing them. I suggest you use one of the detergents on this list, so long as it's rated 4 or 5 stars. https://www.diaperjungle.com/pages/detergent-chart

    3. It could just be a low-quality diaper. This is the case if it's made of flannel, foam, or both. Flannel has a random organization of fibers rather than a uniform one, which makes it not always absorb well. Foam is just plain cheap and not good. If this is the case, I suggest getting a diaper in a birdseye weave, twill weave, gauze weave, or made of terry. 

    I hope this helps! If you have anymore questions, feel free to DM me! 

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    Rearz Omutsu cloth diapers

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    On 9/11/2019 at 7:53 PM, WetDad said:

    I received a free set of training pants from Rearz when I ordered some onsies recently. They were pretty thick, but they absorbed very little. I tossed them after two uses. I suspect that these "bulky" diapers are using that same poly foam material as the trainers. IMO, don't waste your money.

    If you really want some good (absorbent) cloth diapers, you should look at LeakMaster or Changing Times. These will be far more absorbent initially, and they grow more absorbent with each washing cycle (for the first 5-7 washes). You will need diaper pins with these, but that is not a big deal. Every adult cloth diaper site has large pins for sale. 

    You will also need waterproof panties as well. My preference is PUL (Poly Urethane Laminate), but others prefer vinyl. You will want to try both. Get yourself a size that is at least one size bigger than you think is right. You will end up eventually settling on something two sizes bigger than what you think is right, but we all have to go through that. At that point, you will stop having leaks. If you need diapers for night time or wheel chair use, you should consider the "high waist" option, as these are usually about 2 inches taller and will fit you much better for those scenarios.

    That's because the training pants aren't meant to be highly absorbent. They're only meant to contain small accidents, not full-on wettings. The Omutsu line might be different. 

    On 9/11/2019 at 4:18 PM, canuckistan.who said:

    Hello,

      Has anyone tried the Rearz Omutsu cloth diapers? I love their Inspires, but I really don't like making so much garbage. So I've been strongly leaning towards cloth instead. I've got zero experience with cloth though, so I'm not sure what's good, what isn't or what to look for.

    https://rearz.ca/omutsu-bulky-nighttime-cloth-diaper/

      I'm planning to use these for the covers;

    https://rearz.ca/waterproof-flannel-pant-diaper-cover/

    Thanks for any insight!

    I haven't tried the Omutsu diapers myself. However, overly bulky diapers can be a pain to wash. Your best bet would be this diaper right here: https://rearz.ca/adult-nighttime-prefold-diaper/ Or you could get it through this site if you'd rather buy it through a US outlet: https://cooshietooshiez.com/adult-nighttime-prefold-diaper/ It's not as bulky as the Omutsu line, but it's still very thick and absorbs well.

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