My foster parents made me see a therapist paid by socal services when I was 13 as they often found my nappies under my bed. I went about four time in all and had some good conversations with the women about life untill she asked me why I feel the need to wear incontinent pads and that just made me freeze up with embarrassment. I just kept saying ''I don't know'' to all her questions untill the session ended and never went back. She later told everbody I had emotional problems.
If I was you 'babykimmy25' I would kind some common ground with the therapist and wait untill you both feel comfortable with each other before you talk about your AB/DL lifestyle.