MsPuffin

Thank you all so very much for taking the time to respond with advice. I really liked the idea of giving his AB a separate name so they we can distinguish. We have been doing well with that. I think it allows me to still have the time I need with his adult side as well as satisfying his need for AB time. We have been talking much more openly and compromising. I'm really greatful for that and also for the tips and advice this website as provided me with. Thank you all.

I know how you feel. My boyfriend hid his DL/AB side from me for a very long time. it wasn't until we started having intimacy issues that he finally broke down. I kept thinking that he didn't find me attractive anymore but it was really that he was uncomfy being himself. I wish that I had know sooner because I spent so much time wondering what I was doing wrong, thinking he didn't like me anymore. I am so glad that I know the truth now and it has strengthened our relationship tremendously. I wish you and your husband every happiness.

Hi, I am a very new mommy. My boyfriend was afraid to be open with me for a while, but when he finally opened up, I was very accepting. I love him very much, and I enjoy the nurturing role that he desires (cuddle, changing etc). What I am having trouble with is the intimate side. He wants mommy/baby time to lead into intimate time. I want this for him; I want him to enjoy it. But I don’t find myself in an intimate mood when he is my baby. I know it’s selfish, but I want to enjoy intimate time as well. I find him more attractive when he is just his regular self. The man I know so well. I love the baby side too, but it is so new and different, I just don’t know how to feel that way intimately. For a long time I tried to make him happy and do what I thought he wanted, but lately he has been noticing that I’m not fully into it. He knows me very well. I guess my question is, how do I make this work for both of us?

Thank you both !

Hey everyone,