Hi, I am a very new mommy. My boyfriend was afraid to be open with me for a while, but when he finally opened up, I was very accepting. I love him very much, and I enjoy the nurturing role that he desires (cuddle, changing etc). What I am having trouble with is the intimate side. He wants mommy/baby time to lead into intimate time. I want this for him; I want him to enjoy it. But I don’t find myself in an intimate mood when he is my baby. I know it’s selfish, but I want to enjoy intimate time as well. I find him more attractive when he is just his regular self. The man I know so well. I love the baby side too, but it is so new and different, I just don’t know how to feel that way intimately. For a long time I tried to make him happy and do what I thought he wanted, but lately he has been noticing that I’m not fully into it. He knows me very well. I guess my question is, how do I make this work for both of us?