I had a an appointment a few weeks ago , doc put me on meds that made me crazy, itchy, agitated, and anxious. I stopped taking them and guess what there symptoms came back, peeing all the time burning feeling down there, and now I am having pains in my left side in the kidney area. It's not shooting pain, but like uncomfortable pain. I wanted to wear pull ups for the urges due to the fact that I have had two accidents from not being able to hold it, but wife isn't to thrilled. She think it's weird that I'm so willing to wear diapers when most men would be dead set against it. I feel helpless and frustrated.