Its something a previous girlfriend introduced him to years ago, I know he's tried things before with her. I'm the only other person he's told about it.
I think he feels it might freak me out, and I think he's a little embarrassed with his own desires. I don't think he believes I could be interested, and I'm more interested than I thought I would be. I agree that we need to talk about it more, but it's hard when he's the strong silent type.
We've been together almost two years and we've discussed it before, he knows I'd rather try new things with him than know he's sitting at home in front of his computer getting something he thinks I can't offer.
Thanks for the advice but he thoroughly enjoyed what I've already tried so I'm not taking steps backwards in bed. We do need to talk things out and figure out what each other wants before we step forward though.