A rant is a rant. Simply that. It's not meant to be taken serious or even replied to at times. Blowing off steam simply because. Looking back I see I didn't post myself as clear as I should have. When I was refering to financial stability ...from what I seen it is true. What kind of potential Mommy/lover wants someone who doesn't have a grasp of a balance betwen "this" and that? Most woman want someone they can depend on to help pay the bills, perhaps raise a family with, and who they love for ALL sides of who they are. Not someone who just wants to be a baby all their life and have every little whim catered to.
I may be 25 but I still have seen quite a lot for my age, so don't even begin to tell me that I don't know. I've had my share of trials and tribulations. Many many encounters with all walks of life from this lifestyle/fetish. I seen people cry, I seen people lie, I seen people cheat, attempted suicides, and let us not forget the asl'ers looking for cyber because they sell themselves short from thinking such a thing can exist in real life. I always take a step back when I see this and ask Why. I seriously don't get it anymore. It's like when you hide a behind a fear for so long that you swear to yourself it will always be this way but then one day you confront your fear. You feel like a idiot because it seemed so childish to be hiding from in the first place, letting in control you, and you only wish you had gotten over it sooner. That's what I see a lot of. Keep in mind, this is only what I seen of others ...myself is a whole different story.