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Hate to necropost but I'm in Memphis also.

The way I see it is you have two options, live with the potential that the person will out you in whatever way you can and however your comfortable with; or get out in front of it and take away the power they have over you. While it may not be possible given your professional, personal situation etc blackmail is only powerful in it's potential for damage. If there is no potential then there is no worry. Soaked, if your the same one from the other site, I can't reply to your message yet because I'm not of sufficient user lvl.

Though walmart's off the shelf diapers are the cheap kind, but you can get molicare dilivered to the store for free if you order from their website. I've notdone it but they list that as an available option.

Speaking as an LEO, we see enough "weird" shit , who do you think shows up to the bdsm dungeon where someone died during auto-esphixiation time, that at most I can only image it would get wise ass comments at the water cooler. Since your clothing isn't relivant to you defending your home I can't see it making it into the report. Where I work we have an obligation, within reason, to preserve people's public desency and I would say not saying someone is dressed like a baby would fit that category. If you were treated like a suspect, a few things could be at work: 1. Some states don't like people killing people no matter how justified so expect to be treated like shit 2. As mentioned earlier, we see all kinds so until they figure out what is going on you may be a suspect. 3. We often times shelter ourselves from constantly seeing and dealing with the worst 10% of society everyday and everyone else when shit is going horribly wrong by hiding behind what comes off as rough, businesslike, callus and cynical. Remember, this was super traumatic for you; it was Thursday for me. It doesn't make it right it simply is what it is. 4. They could be an asshole. 5. They may just be unprofessional. 6. Any or all of the above. You will have to go downtown. You will have to make a statement. You will likely be charged with homicide, and in some way or another depepending on your state, it will be ruled justified and everything will end there. While I hope nothing like what the op posted happens to anyone, remember better to be judged 12 than carried by six babied up be damned.

When I lived near DC I had great experiences with 5 Guys so I was excited when they came to town. Turned out to be a total let sown. Fortunately there are other great local joints to get burgers quickly. If you go through Texas and some of the boarding states What'a'burger is a great chain akin to in and out so I hear from those who can compare. In any case Whataburger makes great food and they have a flat top going in the back to cook your Burger on.

I'm a dad and a dl and I've changed my kids diapers while padded. The grand irony, which is never lost on you, is that you are constantly encouraging them to use the potty like a big kid while wearing yourself and choosing to do the exact opposite.