I appreciate everyone's input on this very hard situation.... See I literally have no one to talk to about this and he lacks the ability to put things into words. Right now we are working on this and trying to see if we can figure this out. I will say that due to the nature of what he was looking at I will not condone it in any form even if I know what he's doing... I explained to him that although yes these children are not exposing their sexual parts they are still being forced by some sicko to pose for pics and they probably are being molested as well behind the scenes. That's what bothers me the most is that he's supporting that community because he is weak. I can deal with the DL side, but not that! I also do keep up with our sex life and give him everything he wants even since we've had the baby yeah he had to wait a little while but oh well so did I. I'm more of a sexual being than he is I could go every night. But I'm to the point where he needs to give up that aspect of this, he gets everything else he wants and if hes that selfish he will lose me and his daughter accordingly.... Once again thank you all, your information has shed a light where there had only once been darkness before.