Wayz2PlzU

Oh I didn't mean you about the constructive feedback. It was the other person claiming that fantasizing led to acting on them physically in reality. I agree with you entirely that there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality. And some folks, men and women a-like have a hard time distinguishing between the two. But as a complete virgin, I know where the boundaries lie. In the case of what "Christine" said about fantasies taking on a life of their own, that happens only when there is an obvious breakdown in the psyche (mental health meltdown).

Thank you for the constructive feedback! :-)

I don't mean to go all "sexist" or "chauvinistic pig" on the straight females, but don't they often fantasize about hot men (celebrity and otherwise) sexually on a frequent basis? Does that mean they'll eventually act out their fantasies too? Just going by that logic alone, I have some sex crazed friends. And I've barely begun to explore my own sexuality. Just barely. And if there were such a thing as "thought police" we'd all be criminals as some point with a felony rap sheet a mile long! LMAO Seriously though, it's a bit like saying all men are potential rapists. I've never had sex, never wanted to, but as of late I've only begun to explore the possibilities! Just saying! :-)

Not necessarily. At least not in my case. If that had been true, I would have acted upon masturbation fantasies years ago despite the distance between this young woman and myself. I learned, eventually, that it was just not feasible even with ideal conditions met.

I kind of agree on both sides here, but more importantly I agree with the quoted person above. Number 1), I don't fantasize about this woman being under 18, which is HUGE. Two, I have not a clue where she lives and even if I did I would not dare harm her. Three, this is really the first time I've even explored this fantasy, and yet yes I do feel as though I'm violating her without physically doing so, even if she's unaware of it. Thank goodness for that last part. Besides, conjuring up women just seems to lose its charm when masturbating. After a while I get bored with it. Does this border on me becoming a stalker type or some kind of sicko? I don't think so as long as I know where the boundaries in the real world or real life, if you like, lie. It's not as though I'm going out and raping young women left and right and claiming it was consentual. No, I'm just trying to have a healthy sexual fantasy that I think all men have at some point. But the truth of it is this: With or without a real person reference, I find myself unable to fantasize about ME 'IN' the sexual fantasy at all. So for someone to say I risk acting upon such fantasies clearly hasn't met a guy like me who is barely sexual at all. I'd even go as far as saying I'm asexual. I don't have regular sexual relations, so why should I be exempt from the occasional fantasy?

I have to ask how it is dishonest. It's not like I have regular discussion with this young woman at all. Not even when we were friends. I emphasize the word "were" just so we're clear.

I have just recently started to fantasize about a young woman while masturbating. Someone I don't talk to nor do I consider a friend any longer, yet I fantasize about her wearing a diaper, getting spanked by either myself or other women, but somehow it feels wrong. Is it wrong? If so, why?

If only I could tolerate the taste and the smell of their food, I'd so want to live there having ABDL acceptance. It doesn't mean I'd wear 24/7, but at least there would be no need to hide the stashes. I feel like some sort of drug addict trying to hide his stash until it's a widely accepted practice like weed. lol :-)

I know this is probably not what the OP had intended for an answer , but I've had public restroom issues where I had wished I had been wearing a diaper.

Least favorite thing about wearing diapers is that once you use it, you have to change or risk someone smelling the odor. :-( And having no one there to play big/little sister and/or acting mommy. You know, the big sis who changes your diaper in place of a mommy. Or she plays Lil sis so you can spank her and change her diaper while mommy is away. ;-)

I was about 13 when bedwetting stopped for me. I had to go to a doctor and get a prescription, but it did stop so I wouldn't feel any more awkward in high school than I already had been.

What is interesting is that adult spanking, which is still considered a fetish in its own right, gets more acceptance mainstream than ABDL. *SHRUGS* Both are kind of in the "I'm gonna act like a child and you're the parent" sort of roleplay category, but yet ABDL (in my opinion) is considered kind of weird compared to spanking. I wonder why. Any psychologists want to chime in here? Is there s psychological reason to that?

I've been actively logging my food intake and exercise (including my walking while on campus which is a lot of exercise in its own right) for just about a month, and I've already lost 5lbs. I know for some that's a sneeze compared to others losing 10 or 20 lbs in a month. But I have noticed while logging my food with "MyFitnessPal" app that I tend to over indulge when I'm out with mom eating fast food. This is definitely an area I'm steadily working on. For example instead of ordering a large soda pop, I have started getting smaller cups. Instead of a big Mac, I order a single patty cheeseburger. And finally I skip the sides like French fries (even though they are a major weakness), and at home I'm cutting way down on the soda pop. Not cutting it out entirely. Tried that once and I got terrible headaches.

So far I've had no unpleasantries using Blogspot. Though it is Google-owned. But then, unless I'm hosting my own blog server (and that may happen once I get into Networking and Network security classes on campus), I just have to use what I can for now. Still, I wouldn't mind giving DD's site server a try.

I don't trust blogs I cannot control or have limited control over.

I guess it's just easier said than done after 25+ years of seeing good people do ugly things to their spouses (wife/husband), and no one explaining to me how to tell the difference between being "in love" and merely feeling "Oh, I like you a lot!".

I have a whole laundry list of movies that are my favs, but anything sci-fi like Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate, etc.

I'd have to say that I've often thought about this very hypothetical situation. And my answer is that I would try to find a beautiful lesbian girlfriend to wear diapers with. After of course exploring myself with wearing diapers as a woman. Just being honest here. :-)