So, my husband is an ABDL, which I knew this for a couple years before we were married, and just celebrated our first anniversary together. I have questions about this whole fetish and how it works. That is to say, how do others with partners/spouses with this fetish go through daily life with this, and how does it affect the future. I didn't really think abouth it all that much before we were married, because I mainly went along with it because I loved him, which I do deeply. Now, I'm trying to think of this fetish and how it relates to our future, such as having kids one day. My husband is luke warm on the issue, and I mainly think he wants to avoid them because he doesn't want to share me as a "mama" or "mommy". This fetish as also made me start thinking that I might not could care for an infant like a mother should. So, my question is, have any of you had this issue? How did you resolve it together? Or, has this fetish unearthered other problems for you?