Vera

W ehave two main stuffed buddies that share our bed... Even though my fiance isn't ABDL.. or isn't into age play in the slightest. He still enjoys stuffed animals we will often play with them together. They've donned their own voices and personalities... XD Teddy My fiance bought this for me when we first started dating. It was to replace my childhood bear that was too loved, and had just fallen apart, even after multiple repairs. Teddy is just the right size, about 20 inches tall, nice soft and fully. He has big black eyes, and nice fluffy honey-brown fur. I sleep with him tucked next to me every-night. Teddy is pretty giggly, loves to dance and cuddle. Professor Puppy When we first moved in together, his childhood stuffed dog got lost in the shuffle. He was very upset, as it was one of the few things he had left from his childhood. I had searched the internet for months trying to find the exact, heck even a close match to his buddy. No luck. One day while we were at the grocery store, we spotted the Golden Book: The Pokey Little Puppy. It was one of his favorite books growing up. Well I surprised him about a week later, not only with the book, but with a puppy pal to go along with it. It wasn't an exact match to the one he had lost... but he quickly grew attached, and we even came up with a crazy backstory for him.

For one, There tends to be more males into this than females. Two: Time and Cost... Heck, if I was ever inclined to do a Mommy role, I would probably charge if it was anything beyond babying/cuddling/playing. While the idea of having someone change your messy,wet diaper may be a thrill to you..it's not exactly the most pleasant thing in the world. From my experience a lot of the Mommies that do charge often provide diapers,clothing, and even the space to do it. These things cost money to provide... And whose to say that these women aren't doing it out of love? I'd love to wine and dine my friends every night, provide a space for them to be relaxed and let go. However, unless I have a large sum of money coming in, it's just not possible. Just because it's not something financially possible for me to do, doesn't mean I love or care about my friends any less.. Try finding a pal on here or on fetlife, and develop a relationship. Just expecting someone to do something as intimate as that out of the kindness of their heart is unrealistic.

I find hand-washing my stuffies when they get too loved helps. I let them air dry, and then toss them in the dryer on the delicate tumble mode for about 5-10 minutes. To refluff their fur I take a pet brush (The ones with the little rows of small metal bristles) and give them a light brushing. This really works well for those pals that have longer fur. I only really do this when it's been a month or two.. or when one of my nieces have gotten ahold of Mr.Teddykins with sticky dirty hands. .I could see the bag of baking soda working though, not only will it neutralize odors, but it will also help absorb away oils. Baby powder would be a good altlernative, same oil absorbing properties, plus you get that nice fresh scent. All you'd have to do to get the excess powder off is lightly pat/shake your stuffed friend out, et voila! I do this with my own hair in between washes when it starts to get too oily. (I have Little Mermaid Red hair... so I wash every other day to help the color last longer, I do bathe everyday.. just so y'all don't think I'm some kinda nasty. heh.) Also if you do get any stains (questionable or otherwise) a tiny bit of baking soda with water on a toothbrush is a great way to spot clean.

Manipulating anyone in any capacity isn't healthy in any sort of relationship. It seems like her boyfriend is already open, as he is trying to understand it. Maybe it's just as simple as telling him that sometimes you'd like to be babied and taken care of as part of foreplay. My fiance himself really isn't into my abdl side, but he is a good sport and will change me from time to time, and doesn't mind the baby talk or me calling him Daddy. You have already taken a huge step by telling him. Bettypooh has summed it up very nicely!