i have thought bout this for sum time and i never said i WAS going to do it for sure i just wanted to know what i would have to do if i knew for sure what i wanted to do, and what i do know is that i want to do this but i am going to wait a while i have known this for a while even my husband wants to wait a while for now i am just going to wear 24/7 and see if i can stand it and i am going to go 24/7 to lose control but to see how it feels. so please STOP giving me advice on thinking bout it i can decided that on my own i already know all i want to know on that side i already talked to someone about that i just want to know if and when i am ready to take that step what i would need to do!