25happymommy18

He's tried cloth diapers before, but he couldn't figure out how to get them on quite right. Might be my turn to try. Thanks!

I just checked it and replied. Like I said, you can leave me messages on this site as well if you'd like. I'll find them either way.

Awesome. I'll have to find some of those to try. Thanks a lot guys!!!

Me and the "lil one" would love to find some new kinds to try! Because of money issues, we've just been getting Depends, but he doesn't like them because they don't feel like actual baby diapers. Any suggestions on kinds to try?

If I were in Illinois, I'd say we could get together and talk sometime. I happen to be in Nebraska, though, so that won't happen. But you can talk to me if you want. I'm on here almost everyday or you can email me at irocker421@yahoo.com if you wanna talk about anything. I'll help however I can. Best of luck to you! happymommy

Alright, awesome. Thank you!!

My boyfriend and I have been trying to find people in central Nebraska that share our interests. I'm still new to the AB/DL world, but I'd love to be able to help him however I can. I'm more than happy to play mommy, and we can talk about everything there is to talk about, but I know he still feels alone. People that live around here aren't usually very understanding about that sort of thing, and I can't exactly go around asking people about it and hope to get anywhere. I'm really hoping to find somebody living close to us that would be willing to talk and, eventually, be friends and meet up sometime. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much! Have a great afternoon! happymommy

You aren't the only one out there who's new to all this. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months and have known about him wearing diapers since the beginning. Everyone is going to tell you different reasons for wearing, but the most important reason is the reason your man gives you. That's the one to focus on. I asked my boyfriend why he wears, and he was willing to talk to me about it. I'm sure your guy would be open to talk about it with you, too, since he's already let you into that part of his life. My boyfriend talks to me about everything now. It's just admitting that secret that seems to be the biggest step. After that, the communication lines should be very open about it. I've never worn diapers myself, and he's never asked me to, but I'd say that's just one more thing to talk to him about. There's no reason not to give it a try if you think you'd be okay with it or to just tell him you're not ready for that yet. Either way, you have to remember that he trusts you, so you can trust him, too. If you try out wearing a diaper and don't like it, just take it off and explain why you didn't like it. I'm sure he'll understand, and you'll get major points for trying. Eventually, if you stick with the whole thing, you'll figure out what he likes and it will start to come as second nature. My boyfriend and I recently spent a weekend alone together, and he told me afterwards that it was a major relief to just be able to wear whenever he wanted and not have to worry about hiding anything. As far as I can tell, wearing diapers is a way for people to relax, release, and feel safe with a person they trust to take care of them. He trusts you, and that's a huge deal!! Trust him back. Even if you don't end up wearing right along with him, he'll appreciate the support he gets from you just being there for him and trying to understand where he's coming from. Everybody needs somebody to trust, and I hope it works out well for the both of you! Hope this helped you some. If you'd ever wanna talk more, send me a message on this site or an email at irocker421@yahoo.com. Best wishes, happymommy

Thanks for that! I'm actually pretty sure age wouldn't matter to him. He's almost 9 years older than me, and he has friends of all ages. It might be good for him to be able to talk to someone older about wearing. That way he could ask questions and learn from a more experienced person. Illinois is a bit far to meet, yes, but would you mind keeping in touch online? I'm fairly new to this whole thing myself and I'm sure to have questions of my own along the way.

Hello everyone! I'm still kinda new to being a mommy, but I'm really enjoying it so far. When my boyfriend told me he wore diapers and liked being babied, I said I'd do my best to do it right. If it made him happy, I was more than willing to try it. Now, almost three months later, we're still together and happy as ever. A short time ago, he mentioned how much he'd like to meet people close to where we live that share his interests. After a bit of thought, I decided to try some chat rooms and see if anyone lived close enough to talk to. If anybody reading this is living in Nebraska close to Grand Island, Hastings, Kearney, or even Lincoln or Omaha, it'd be great to hear from you!! I'd love to be able to put him in contact with people he can talk to from close to home. Thanks so much for any replies! Best wishes to all, 25happymommy18